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Sex. Amongst the active, at what age does it stop?

Discussion in 'CycleChat Cafe' started by PaulB, 19 Mar 2017.

  1. PaulB

    PaulB Guru

    Location:
    Colne
    I'm asking because I was recently on an extended boozing session with a lot (fluctuating numbers but 13-17 in total) of lads in the same age-bracket as me (youngest 48, oldest 61). When a couple of women became temporary members of the group, their taxi came and they left and the subject went on to sex and there was a clear dividing line between those who still did it and those who didn't or couldn't. Only one of our group said it was because he was denied it by his partner while of the others who were active and those who weren't, one obvious conclusion emerged. Sport! Those who had led active sporting lives, regardless of the actual sport, were still active while those whose lives revolved around pubs, pies and darts were unanimously inactive. The youngest one of our group admitted to being the longest celibate (nearly 6 years) of those with long-term partners while the oldest was, or claimed at least, to be 'a once a week' man! There will be no surprise to discover that the youngest was clearly the least fit while the elder member still holds age records for his sport.

    On the introduction of Viagra, I did some clinical work in the SD area with a different, but related, product and it became apparent that dysfunction was directly related to the arterial health of the patient. Smokers and the overweight were more likely to have (I'm not writing 'suffered' there) SD and if the patient being seen was a low-average weight non-smoker, the first thought was the condition was psychological rather than mechanical.

    So I'm raising this question because I'm assuming most on this forum are active and I'm not asking for confessions, just your contributions on this matter.
     
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  2. Drago

    Drago Guru

    Location:
    The middle bit
    I'm still active at 48, and Mrs D being decade younger means I've good incentive to have a go. Unfortunately, this shoulder injury has made it all but impossible.

    However, I'm at the point in my life that having gone a month or so without a bit of how's your father hasn't left me a highly strung, desperate wreck.

    Blimey, a sensible reply from me!
     
  3. CanucksTraveller

    CanucksTraveller Macho Business Donkey Wrestler

    Location:
    Hitchin, Herts
    You left out another factor.... children. Nothing saps the romantic spirit like a full day with a stroppy 5 year old or two.
     
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  4. Does D.I.Y count?:scratch:
     
  5. The thought of CC members having er,sex makes me feel a bit queezy.:unsure:
     
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  6. derrick

    derrick The Glue that binds us together.

    I think a few of the old boys and girls on here could do with a bit, It might cheer them up a bit.:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
     
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  7. Cunobelin

    Cunobelin Legendary Member

    Location:
    Gosport
    I am still active ... not sure about the wife

    (JOKE)
     
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  8. Dear Marge.
    Sometimes she just doesn't want to know!
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  9. numbnuts

    numbnuts Guru

    Location:
    North Baddesley
    Sex for me stopped at 38 for me after damaging my spine in an accident
     
  10. Fab Foodie

    Fab Foodie hanging-on in quiet desperation ...

    It's not all bad....
     
  11. Yeah but quite a bit of it is!xx(


    :okay:
     
  12. FishFright

    FishFright Well-Known Member

    I remember the sex, it was sort of crunchy *

    *Obscure Young Ones misquote
     
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  13. PaulB

    PaulB Guru

    Location:
    Colne
    Yes but they come along earlier in a couple's relationship (usually) so this isn't the demographic (apologies everyone) this question is directed to.
     
  14. Dan B

    Dan B Señor Member

    Location:
    London
    I'm 42 and have 2 kids under 6 and a third imminent. I'd have thought, as you say, that this is much too young to be "past it" but the OP suggests that it's possible
     
  15. keithmac

    keithmac Über Member

    We always found time even with having two young children and been knackered most of the time!.

    They're 5 and nearly 10 now so getting we're having a more relaxed time of it.

    I think barring any medical conditions I'd be having a long hard look at the situation if the sex stopped, life's too short to spend in a sexless marriage..

    My wife says I get narky after 3 days without, hadn't noticed until she pointed it out!.