I didn’t know what barbecuing was until I read this:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/BBQ-Sauces-Rubs-Marinades-Dummies/dp/0470199148
Being a fairly typical Londoner, BBQs until that point had been an opportunity to dice with burning down a friend’s house, drink stupid amounts of lager, then sit indoors while the fire subsided in the rain and order pizza.
The first time we did a proper recipe from the dummies book, I did the brisket on our modest gas BBQ, Wife did a cheese/potato bake side, and our friends have been hugely complimentary ever since, these past six years or so.
Not so with mere burned sausages and burgers.