Hi All,
Not sure what I'm after really, perhaps just a space to vent?!
Had a brilliant ride with my son today (7) by the time we got home we'd covered 19 miles, mainly on road, little bit off road and a sandwich stop. Not bad for a little one hey!?
We live in a very touristy area, and as soon as the sun comes out all the clueless city folk like to come to the countryside and bimble around in everybody's way talking about how 'quaint' the countryside is in their shiny wellies with their black labradors whilst shouting to Jonty and Meredith to 'breathe it in' - but I digress. . . (apologies to anyone out there who I've just described lol!)
During our ride, mainly on country lanes, we passed many a family like the above, mostly with off lead dogs. Many which weren't interested in us and behaved themselves, one spaniel which actively ran towards my front wheel and narrowly avoided getting squashed and then finally the golden retriever. We didn't even see it, it was in the verge, the family made no effort to call the dog or alert us to the fact it was there and just as we were about to pass, it bounded out of the verge in front of son who hit the dog full on, went over the handle bars and narrowly avoided being run over by err me behind him! The people then shouted at 'stupid bella' the dog whilst I helped son up, straightened his handle bars, brakes and seat. I turned to them and said 'it's not a stupid dog, you should have it on a lead' - which was pretty calm for me (think I was mainly in shock, thought of plenty of things I could have said to them after the event!). The man eventually came over to me, said are you ok to son who was desperately trying not to cry in front of these people, and then said 'she's never done that before'. Not sure if that was meant to help?!
The thing that bothers me is the dog wasn't doing anything wrong, it didn't try to run at us or chase us like the earlier spaniel, it was just being a dog. It wasn't being naughty, it wasn't the dogs fault, it certainly wasn't my sons fault yet the people looked like the felt no responsibility laid with them at all? raaaaa...... and breathe
Main thing is son is ok, hopefully not too put off, cut knee and scuffed his pride and joy bike, stopped for ice cream at the end of the ride so *hopefully* all is forgotten!