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vikingcyclist

New Member
Location
Bedford
I'm currently agonising over what (for me) is a difficult decision.

Currently I've got a good job, which I enjoy, and I'm nicely content. All fine and well so far. I also have few ties, the ones which exist being family, friendships and relationships - all but family created over the last two years struggle since I uprooted myself and abandoned those I had previously. Even family turned into a once a month/every few months thing for most of the first year while I was finding my feet.

I'm just now starting to feel settled again, but have started to consider a somewhat more drastic change/move. The first was a move, within the same country, of about 100 miles. Not too bad at all, and all for the job I'm now in.

Now I'm looking at applying to another job (which is very much a long shot, the place I'm looking at applying for is very, very selective) which would involve a bigger move. I'm looking at applying to the CERN installation in France/Switzerland. Most likely I will be going ahead with the application, and will be crushed when I don't get it, but I wanted to do two things. Firstly to vent and hopefully get out some of the anxiety (now done) and secondly to see if anyone else has done something similar in the past, or has any opinions about making such a move?

The other thing I'm considering is that now cycling is an important part of my life. Has anyone cycled near the Swiss/French border, and whether (should I get the job) I should be looking for a better MTB than the comfort one I've currently got?
 

upsidedown

Waiting for the great leap forward
Location
The middle bit
Can't offer any advice sorry but good luck whatever you decide to do.


cheers

paul
 

ChrisKH

Guru
Location
Essex
If I have one piece of advice, it is don't let your family (parents, brothers, sisters) hold you back. I made the mistake of thinking it was important ten years ago and decided not to emigrate because of my family links. Big mistake. Now both my parents are dead and I rarely speak to my brothers/sisters.

If you have kids and wife that's another matter altogether.
 
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vikingcyclist

vikingcyclist

New Member
Location
Bedford
If I have one piece of advice, it is don't let your family (parents, brothers, sisters) hold you back. I made the mistake of thinking it was important ten years ago and decided not to emigrate because of my family links. Big mistake. Now both my parents are dead and I rarely speak to my brothers/sisters.

If you have kids and wife that's another matter altogether.

No wife or kids, and my family are doing quite the opposite - encouraging me. It probably helps that the place I want to go is actually my birth town, where my dad was working when I was born.

It's a large part of the reason I'm seeking other persepctives - looking for objective opinions rather than the unreserved encouragement I'm getting from family at the moment.
 

marinyork

Resting in suspended Animation
Location
Logopolis
Go. It is the theatre for the greatest set of experiments ever conducted at a pivotal time. If you're the emigrating type, just do it.
 
Given your forum name, then you should be heading this way!

If you have a gut feeling, then follow it. It's your life and you have to live it the way you want/need/have to!

Get a compact road bike and a hybrid for mixed cycling experiences.

Good luck!
 
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