Speicher said:
Yes, it could be tricky for a first child to accept a sibling. I expect it is a delicate balance between emphasing to Ollie that he is "a big boy" now, as in him saying "Me do it" and the fact that he is still very young. This is probably where grandma's and aunties are useful.
I hope so. I think he'll cope - he'll be young enough to eventually forget what it was like before, and many of his peers also have baby siblings. I was 5 when my sister came along and although I didn't resent her as such, I was that bit older so we didn't want to play at the same things for some time. I couldn't understand why as a toddler, she wouldn't just sit and read a book. I wouldn't want him to have to grow up too quickly, I agree.
Anyway, he'll get plenty of pressies to make up for it - he'll probably soon be asking for another sibling to get more! The biggest thing will probably be my sister being out of action for so long after the C-section - she'll be restricted as to what she can lift and so on. She said she's already become Terrible Grumpy Mum, due to backache and tiredness, so he's getting used to liking Daddy better.
Sorry to hear about your cold Gromit. Get an early night, and drink juice. Or tea. If it's only an informal interview, they'll not bother about a cold, and maybe the interview will take your mind off the cold for a while. You'll like this. We were just finishing the final unload today, at about 5, when Ivana and John appeared at the compound, tentatively, thinking we were local yoof messing about - they thought we'd all gone home already! We'd been talking about Nuts magazine as we unloaded, and Jonny T had been doing his ladz impression...