Good morning. A beautiful bright and breezy morning. My buddies are gravelling today. I'm envious. #2SP collection at 8.15. I don't have my usual enthusiasm for this. I am sure though this will have changed by the time I pick her up.
Yesterday was strange. My lad invited both sets of grandparents for lunch. His partner has a complex family situation, mother married twice, father married three times and a variety of siblings. Yesterday we had biological father with #3 wife. Talk about competitive. Within 10 minutes I realised he saw this as a "who's the best granddad" thing. #3 wife, who I'm told has no interest in children, was similar. Mrs P and I both sat back and took no part in the competition.
The one occasion I interacted with #2SP her other grandfather pushed in within 30 seconds. I found that strange. After they had gone #2SP came over and climbed onto my lap. That meant a lot. Usually when I'm at her house it's to collect her for childminding. As we stood by our car, Mum holding her, #2 put out her arms and lent forward as if to say OK, I'm ready to go.
Enough of my musings. I feel a bit groggy. Mrs P has appeared very early which means I can use the shower without waking her.
Manchester here I come.
I have this with ex-wife's "new" husband. If we are both present, at our Son's, and Grandchildren are there, he spends the whole time trying to "out grandad" me.
I find it really amusing, and, I must admit to sometimes (well, ok, often) deliberately leading him on.
The oldest grandchild in question, is now 15yo, and, has obviously noticed the interaction. There was, for example, one occasion when myself and grandson were painting their garden fence. We ran out of paint, and, I said to grandson, I will be back with more paint in a couple of days. Grandson, said "relax, grandad, grandad x will be here tomorrow to finish it off, just to beat you".