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PaulSB

Squire
Morning. Wet. Windy. Overslept till 7.30 and have been dashing ever since. I'm very tired. Yesterday's ride was harder than I realised and I'm dehydrated. Got home to find Mrs P had invited four friends for an evening of supper and parlour games. Riotous. Finally dragged my aching body to bed at 00:30.

@Tenkaykev another fan of the Trolley app here. I keep all the expensive things which can be stocked up in there..........you know coffee, gin, whisky. 🤣 In seriousness though I do swap my shopping around partly based on the app. Increasingly finding Tesco are competitive with Aldi on a very wide range.........pains me as I do not like Tesco.

Marriage in retirement? I salute all of you caring for a partner. Your commitment shows true love and understanding. 👏👏 I have only a tiny experience of this but enough to know caring for the carer is vital. As @numbnuts said grab a few hours wherever you can.

Us? 42 years married and together for 44. It's been good, difficult, happy, sad but I think above all strong. Today we lead both joint and separate lives. We have a close circle of 8/9 mutual friends, a wider circle of mutual friends and then our own independent circle such as my cycling. We spend days and evenings together and on other occasions apart depending on what either one of us wants to do. It works for us.
 

rustybolts

pedalling tediously
Location
Ireland
It’s a funny old thing , mrs exlaser and I have been married since 1988 . Is a our marriage as fresh and exciting as then , of course not . But is it still worthwhile and rewarding ? of course it’s . What we do have shared history , experience, hobbies and a shared world view . Which is so much more important than that flash of sexual attraction which burns very hot but burns out quickly.
I see couples my age and older continuing bitching about each other or just not speaking to each other.
That’s not the world I recognise. Mrs exlaser and I either get on on well or on rare occasions are having a full on row . Which I have to say is no different to our relationship for the last 36 years 😂😂😂😀😀

I am fortunate enough to agree 100% with you , my marriage of 30+ years mirrors your experience . We are the lucky ones I guess , but I and "her indoors" worked at our marriage , she aint Miss World anymore to outsiders but shes as beautiful to me as ever. I am a wrinkly spindle legged old worzel gummidge but she thinks Im gorgeous .
 
I’m hopeless with plants. Many years ago I tried bonsai trees as I think they are beautiful but afraid they didn’t last long :laugh:

I've had a lot of bonsai trees and all have ended up in the bin, but this african violet must be over 20 years old
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Mo1959

Legendary Member
I've had a lot of bonsai trees and all have ended up in the bin, but this african violet must be over 20 years old
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Gosh, that certainly looks healthy!
 
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