No disrespect I don't want to any of those things. For reasons of vanity I like to keep fit - but now I will 60 who's looking ?
No one who posts in here would have any problem with what you say because we're all enjoying life in ways which suit us - which is the key. We happen to be a bunch of retired people who for one reason or another rub along quite happily here which adds to the fun.
I'm vain and happy to admit it. One of the pluses of cycling is I don't carry too much weight. Another big plus is fitness saves lives, I've had a heart attack and a brain haemorrhage and I'm still here. So stay fit. My vanity also means I dress accordingly, if I feel I look good that'll do, but if I feel I look a bit "old" I'd have to change. Might sound daft but it's how I am. I cycle 2-3 times a week, deeply involved in my local club, have an allotment, childmind my granddaughter, travel, do some cultural stuff, in a couple of walking groups, go quizzing and help to run the local U3A. I accept all of that could be immensely boring to everyone else here but it keeps me very busy.
If you haven't heard of the U3A try Google. It's a good organisation for retired people who want to have some fun and are looking to widen their interests. The motto is live, laugh, learn.
I'd have a look around and a long think about what you would do with your time. If you don't know how you want to use your time then I would say you're not ready for it. I know two people who didn't handle retirement very well - one took up delivering very expensive luxury cars. He loves cars and driving. The other found he was drinking too much in the afternoons so got a little job in B&Q and solved the problem.
My ex boss died this year on the 6th anniversary of my retirement. He couldn't believe I could afford to retire when I handed in my letter and said he couldn't afford it. He had been retired for 8-9 months...........he did though own six houses. He was ten years older than me. I think there's a lesson in there.
