We have been doing our best to involve parents.
I am now, no longer a Beaver Leader or help with cubs.
I came in for a torrent of abuse from a 'low life pond scum' last night for 'telling off her dear little daughter'.
Ballcock's to it all, I've packed it in.
As you know my son has been bullied all his school life. We only got it sorted last summer with some serious intervention - totally put the 'whatsits' up the head teacher.
Anyway, that is sorted, but recently a 'girl' has started beeing really nasty to my son, threttening him, hitting etc. off it goes again...
Said girl is taller than all the class, very much a tom boy and the lads are scared of her. This has boiled over into the cub pack and the girl has been getting my son there. I help out there too, so had a 'quiet word' - basically you stop it now or the head teacher will be involved. IE. stop or this thing get's serious - your mum/teacher/head.
This was a few weeks ago. The kid is in the middle of a family break up - messy. Mum isn't really looking after the kid, and all seems to be being done by another family (surrogate dad so happens to be a Beaver helper).
Anyway, at cubs last night, surrogate mum delivers lazy ar$e real mum to cubs, just to have a go. I was acused of being threttening and intimidating etc. etc (based upon stop or I'll tell your headteacher). I ended up having to walk off as I was about to hit boiling point and come down personal, but thought better of it.
Well that's it, massive shame, but I'm not putting myself out for this. Texted 'surrogate' dad to tell him that's it, and the other femaile helper - Other female helper understands, the 'friend'/dad is probably rather shocked as he's been stuck in the middle.
District have been told and they are bouncing mad (not at me).
Only takes one parent, we don't get paid, we only do this for the kids. The law as it is, no chance.
The shame is, my son will most likely decide he doesn't want to go anymore - I'm hoping to shuffle him into Scouts early as my mate runs that, and he has no messing.
F'ing parents - stuff them.