Kirstie
Über Member
My friend and I had an altercation with a woman and her alsatian yesterday in north yorkshire. We stopped in a village to check our map, and because the main street was busy and a bit narrow, we hitched our bikes onto the pavement so we could look at the map safely NB we weren't riding on the pavement!!!
Along comes woman with dog, who says 'take up all the pavement why don't you' (I was taking up about 1/3 of the pavement and if I had been another pedestrian she wouldn't have said anything), to which i replied 'i was trying not to get run over actually', to which she replies 'get off the pavement you fat effing cow', to which I replied 'screw you!' and then she said something similar, and then my friend joined in. We are both like a pair of rottweilers once we get going and cannot resist a raging argument with a random stranger. I am absolutely terrible for it. I will carry on with venom even if I am in the wrong - I guess it is because I harbour a general contempt for humanity, in which I include myself, of course.
My point is we both felt awful about it afterwards because we had got so angry. So, we reminded ourselves of an article in the guardian recently which said that if you respond to people like that then you are engaging on their terms, not yours. And you are sinking to their level.
So, RISE ABOVE IT PEOPLE!
I will try to take my own advice in future.
Along comes woman with dog, who says 'take up all the pavement why don't you' (I was taking up about 1/3 of the pavement and if I had been another pedestrian she wouldn't have said anything), to which i replied 'i was trying not to get run over actually', to which she replies 'get off the pavement you fat effing cow', to which I replied 'screw you!' and then she said something similar, and then my friend joined in. We are both like a pair of rottweilers once we get going and cannot resist a raging argument with a random stranger. I am absolutely terrible for it. I will carry on with venom even if I am in the wrong - I guess it is because I harbour a general contempt for humanity, in which I include myself, of course.
My point is we both felt awful about it afterwards because we had got so angry. So, we reminded ourselves of an article in the guardian recently which said that if you respond to people like that then you are engaging on their terms, not yours. And you are sinking to their level.
So, RISE ABOVE IT PEOPLE!
I will try to take my own advice in future.