simon the viking
Guru
Wow.... Point 2 really puts it in to perspective... You don't realise how cheap water is (compared to Gas and electric) and a water butt set up would cost at least £25 quid.... so environmentally good, economics wise not so good1. no matter what the right and wrong is - if she has that attitude then it is not worth the fight.
2. While water butts are good environmentally, cost wise they are poor. A full size water butt has about 25p worth of water in it if filled from mains on a meter. You are lucky if you get 4 empties from it per year (as it stops raining when you usually need) so at best you get £1 worth of saving from it.
On the fence. If you moved the boundary then the boundary is where you moved it to. You have lost that bit if she claims it. She is in possession of everything on her side.
It is a real pain having to put up with horrid people.