joebingo
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funny, kind and easy to get on with who are stuck in emotionally abusive relationships with dickheads?
Why is it always the beautiful
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twentysix by twentyfive
Clinging on tightly
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I sense a specific problem. I don't think the generality of your statement applies though.
If in abusive relationship - leave.
If in abusive relationship - leave.
GrumpyGregry
Here for rides.
She will never leave him for you.
fossyant
Ride It Like You Stole It!
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Some folk like the bad lads for some reason, but I guess too much is too much.
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joebingo
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The generality of the statement has seemed to apply throughout my time, though I'm young as are the majority of people I meet and know. I hope it changes with age.
As she said to me last night, leaving is easier said than done. I don't understand why, but then, I've never been emotionally blackmailed.
As she said to me last night, leaving is easier said than done. I don't understand why, but then, I've never been emotionally blackmailed.
Bandini
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joebingo said:
It does. Women generally grow out of wanting a full on bad boy once they have had a few shite relationships (but remember nobody wants a push over or a drip!) and you will tire of ... teases and users, or well meaning girls who like you...but not as much as him. Still nice to have someone who is sweet hanging on.
Best to be a bit fluid IMO - don't be a carpet and don't get bitter, and stay away from girls who are with bad boys: they get what they don't get from the bad boy, and that probably doesn't include some of the best bits about having a close relationship! It probably does include you becoming emotionally attached. Nice for her to have a 'back up bloke'.
I am assuming a lot, but most of us have been young and infatuated: it is pretyy much a universal experience!
Greg is right - she won't. Don't see her - if she really cares she will come. But she won't.
ComedyPilot
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So eloquently put, and nothing I can add to, other than a resonding +1Bandini said:
MacB
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Wigsie said:
Oh my God, I agree with Longers and Wigsie simultaneously, not something I ever expected.
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joebingo
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jig-sore said:
If I didn't detest keyboard warriors, I would offer you out for a fight
Cheers everyone, I feel that I should probably explain the situation a bit better. We've known each other for a few years now, it's not me meeting some beautiful woman and falling in love only to meet her mug of a boyfriend later on in the night.
Last night the situation arose where something could have happened between us but I didn't 'go for it' (longest in head debate eeeeevvvvveeeerrrrrrr). I'm there to help her if she needs someone to talk with. If this was a few years ago, I would be trying to get her to leave him for me, but I've been in that situation too many times now. (Like some girls attract knobs, apparently I attract exclusively people in this situation
)He is just such an unbelievable tool. Seriously, a next level unkind and horrible person, and she's quite vulnerable at the moment and doesn't need his crap.
