[QUOTE 5307262, member: 45"]I don't think that's happening on this thread. I think people are suggesting that if someone is choosing to have children then it's maybe not the best idea to choose a hobby which brings a pretty high prospect of taking a parent away from them before they reach adulthood. Or in this case, before they're born. Some might see that as overly selfish.[/QUOTE]
There was a British Mountaineer, Julie Tullis (Google her) who died climbing K2. She was not just a mountaineer and a good one but a mother of, I think, two small children. The mainstream press wrung it's hands at her decision, even the mountaineering press were uncomfortable with it all. Her book, Clouds From Both Sides, a great read, says, 'if I could choose a place to die it would be the mountains..." There is an acceptance which most of us would find hard to ever understand.
There was a British Mountaineer, Julie Tullis (Google her) who died climbing K2. She was not just a mountaineer and a good one but a mother of, I think, two small children. The mainstream press wrung it's hands at her decision, even the mountaineering press were uncomfortable with it all. Her book, Clouds From Both Sides, a great read, says, 'if I could choose a place to die it would be the mountains..." There is an acceptance which most of us would find hard to ever understand.