Rob - to be honest at 5 foot 2 inches its simpler to do this, as frankly all mens bikes are going to be an awkward fit even if the stores had a small frame version in stock to try. Its a bit like mens clothes - even if you go for an extra small mens jumper it never really fits you properly as we are such different shapes in general !
Short men my size will still tend to have bigger hands or longer torsos, plus the seat will def not be right and have to be changed at more cost.......
As a woman the same height as you, I totally agree with this.
My first road bike was a Trek 1.2WSD, which is the Lexa's predecessor, and it was a lovely bike. Sadly, some twit in a van pulled out in front of me and wrecked it. The reach on Trek's female specific bikes tends to be quite short, and unless I replaced it with another Trek, I was going to struggle to find something with a similar reach.
I ended up doing a custom build based on a unisex frame because I wanted a steel frame (for reasons I won't go into here), and it's taken me 6 months of fiddling around and changing components to get it exactly right.
If you've already fallen in love with either of the bikes you tried, just go ahead and buy it. Yes, you might get more for your money by buying a unisex model, but I doubt you'll get a bike that fits you perfectly straight out of the box, and you want your first road bike to be a good fit and confidence inspiring. Everything on a bike is upgradeable if you decide you want higher end components at a later date.