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Uncle Phil said:I don't think they are on the edge of their nerves - most have no idea that what they are doing could have serious consequences.
The problem is that 999 times out of 1000, we do something risky on the road and we get away with it (whatever it is - tailgating, failing to observe something, a dodgy overtake, jumping a red light, you name it). We get away with it by good luck, because another driver is concentrating and has allowed for our error, because the ABS kicks in, etc.
So our bad behaviour goes unpunished. So we do it again. And again.
Years ago I worked with a woman who routinely tailgated. As we did a lot of driving together, it wound me up and became a routine topic of conversation. This went on for a couple of years.
Then one day she bought her first brand new car. Two days later, she rear-ended someone she'd been tailgating. Her precious new car was off the road for weeks being repaired, she had to pay a hefty excess, and paying the next year's insurance premium really hurt her.
She stopped tailgating after that.
Paul's right - some advanced training (driving or cycling) makes you much more aware of what might go wrong. Usually it doesn't, but concentration makes the difference between crashing or not crashing when something does go wrong.
Nooooo.......... the reason she stopped tailgating was not because of any training course, but as you clearly state because her previous bad driving cost her a lot of money. Simples.