My Son is Autustic. I say “is Autustic” rather than “has Autusm”, as it’s a fundamental part of who he is and not something he contracted. He’s awesome btw!
Going through the process, and seeing him growing up, I have recognised lots of scenarios where I was the same growing up. Some things now make sense, where they hadn’t before.
Some say it’s hereditary, others disagree. This thread appears to already suggest a pattern.
With respect to the label, I personally don’t have an issue either way tbh. It can help some people and hinder others. It should be a choice as to how the individual uses the label I think.