MontyVeda
a short-tempered ill-controlled small-minded troll
- Location
- Lancaster... the little city.
surely you have a close friend who can approach that certain someone and ask "will you go out with my mate?"
And the 'show of strength' doesn't have to be a " So, wanna go out wiv me? 'cos you're really hot, like, and I fancy a bit!".Women like men who know what they want in life and aren't scared to ask for it. It's a show of strength.
Good luck
Bloody hell Night Train, where I come from anyone who came out with a line like that would be regarded as a sophisticated charmer. Especially if he was feeling his crotch and dribbling.And the 'show of strength' doesn't have to be a " So, wanna go out wiv me? 'cos you're really hot, like, and I fancy a bit!".
hate to say it, that backfired on me big time!Women like men who know what they want in life and aren't scared to ask for it. It's a show of strength.
Be straight with this girl. Tell her that you like her but also continue to tell her that you like her friendship just as much. Explain to her that under no circumstances do you want to make her feel uncomfortable or upset any friendship you may have had, but you had to tell her how you feel with a hope that she feels the same way. If she doesn't immediately blow you out, then;
Ask her for a no strings attached, get to know each other date. Don't use the typical date scenarios, ie pictures, meal, etc. Go for something that is more relaxed. A walk around the park and a coffee? A bike ride if that's her thing?
At the end of the day you've got to decide if you think she's worth taking a chance on. If the answer is yes then embrace the situation.
Good luck
Women like men who know what they want in life and aren't scared to ask for it. It's a show of strength.
Be straight with this girl. Tell her that you like her but also continue to tell her that you like her friendship just as much. Explain to her that under no circumstances do you want to make her feel uncomfortable or upset any friendship you may have had, but you had to tell her how you feel with a hope that she feels the same way. If she doesn't immediately blow you out, then;
Ask her for a no strings attached, get to know each other date. Don't use the typical date scenarios, ie pictures, meal, etc. Go for something that is more relaxed. A walk around the park and a coffee? A bike ride if that's her thing?
At the end of the day you've got to decide if you think she's worth taking a chance on. If the answer is yes then embrace the situation.
Good luck
I have had the "Well, you're nice, don't mess me about, and there's no one else to ask..." chat up line said to me.Bloody hell Night Train, where I come from anyone who came out with a line like that would be regarded as a sophisticated charmer. Especially if he was feeling his crotch and dribbling.
I fear it is the inevitable risk one has to take regardless of the gender of the object of your heart's/loin's desires.Is there a way around this, or is it an inevitable risk that one has to take if one wishes to date the opposite sex?
Arch can be a bit up front at times. Glad it worked out.I have had the "Well, you're nice, don't mess me about, and there's no one else to ask..." chat up line said to me.