I enjoy admiring other people's bikes. Saying to someone "I like your bike" invariably puts a big smile on their face. But do I have bike envy? No. Maybe it would be different if I were taller than 4ft 11, but I'm not, so the "I want one of those" becomes very much immaterial.
As for clubs, I'm too slow to join a club. I was invited to join the local one, with the "oh, our social ride is about 14 mph and we don't drop anyone."
But the problem is, I pootle along at about eight or nine miles an hour, and at 14 mph, I'm in a flat out sprint.

So it simply wouldn't be fair on the others in the group. Also, I get out when I have the time, for however long I have the time for. Club rides here are on a Saturday, and I tend to have other commitments. So I'm happy to ride on my ownsome and actually prefer it. I think I'd madden a club ride if I stopped to pick up onions dropped in the verges
