Can he really do this?

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Crankarm

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I would urge you visit a high street solicitor who deals with property disputes. You should get 30 minutes free consultation for an outline of the legal position.

Who actually owns the boundary wall that separates both your and your neighbours structures? If it's yours he cannot touch it. To do so would be a trespass and should he or his agents cause damage then you would have an action against him. If it's unclear then the Party Walls Act might have some relevance although a solicitor would be able to advise you more fully.

If drainage is involved then there may be building regulations to comply with and if your neighbour routes drainage or waste water onto your premises he would have to have an exisiting legal right to do so or if not seek your permission which from what you have said you would be unwilling to give.

As suggested take a few pictures before any remedial work takes place and also take some measurements. If need be film any works as they take place if you feel your neighbour or his agent are trespassing or compromising causing damage to your property.

The police will be of no help whatsoever as it is a civil dispute. However if your neighbour's behaviour is threatening or aggressive, or you feel he will actually assualt you then you should insist the police attend.

As I say I would urge contacting a solicitor. Just saying you can't afford one is a bit defeatist if you have not visited one. In situations like this you need people who know what they are talking about and who are representing YOU. A good solicitor could draught a quick letter to your neighbour which would be money well spent in the long run IMHO. If your neighbour then ignores this then he does so at his peril. A solicitor could obtain an injunction to stop him carrying out a trespass and any work if it is going to compromise your property. A solicitor will be the only way to seek damages from your neighbour if you suffer loss or detriment to your property.
 

Shaun

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I would have thought that any drainage should be to your own land - and as such would expect his joiner chappy to drain to his side of the wall.

Photo's and filming would be useful - especially if you tell the joiner chappy you're videoing his work and expect him to drain things to his customer's side of the wall.

If he turns up in a van that is liveried, take down the company details, phone number etc. and maybe photo / video it for evidence too.

Try to get as much evidence as you can both beforehand, during, and afterwards, then you won't be left with that sinking "I wish I'd got that ..." feeling if you need the evidence afterwards.

I think the "can you do mine too" approach would probably be best, especially if the guy is getting some cash out of it - but get the evidence too as a backup maybe?

Oh, and your neighbour sounds like a complete cock (and it's not like me to swear on CC!).

Cheers,
Shaun :becool:
 
More I think about this, the more I agree that you need, NEED to get a solicitor involved.

Start a diary too, logging each and every interaction with this guy and his builder - get it counter-signed by someone too.

I feel you are in for the long run and you must now stop being afraid of confrontation, accept that some is coming into your life, and equip yourself to deal with it.

BTW, I have had similar experience and standing up to bullies does work.
 
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snapper_37

snapper_37

Barbara Woodhouse's Love Child
Location
Wolves
Cheers for replies guys.

It's really hard to describe the problem with the buildings on-line :wacko:.

Ok, the CAB have said that I did the right thing by asking about having ours sorted too. If we had been involved from the onset and been included in discussions, all this wouldn't have blown up. In my opinion, that is a reasonable request prior to allowing anyone to carry out work. It would have also given us chance to prepare, get time off work etc. Obviously, he couldn't be arsed going down that route.

CAB have said that we can't stop him doing the work (which we knew anyway) and it would be worth our while in speaking to the contractor BEFORE he starts so we know exactly what the crack is and if he can do anything for us too. Luckily, cock is not going to be around whilst the work is being done :biggrin::becool:.

I'm going to take some piccies later which seems to be the general consensus.
 
Sounds grim Snapper. All the advice is good, hopefully you can sort it when this guy appears to do the work but it's as well to be prepared.
 

Landslide

Rare Migrant
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Oh, and your neighbour sounds like a complete cock (and it's not like me to swear on CC!).

You call that swearing? You must have led a very sheltered life, you ********** ************ ********** **** ******** *** *********!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:wacko:
 

Mr Pig

New Member
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I think the "can you do mine too" approach would probably be best, especially if the guy is getting some cash out of it

It could be, but what if the guy's a womble? He could do a botch job on 'your' roof, then what would you do?
 

Mr Pig

New Member
rich p said:
Don't pay him

Sure, if you can tell at a glance he's made a porridge of your roof. Typically though issues don't manifest until weeks or months have passed. My friend at the animal sanctuary got the roofs on her outbuildings done last year, by a supposedly reputable roofer. The roofs were terrible, she had to get them all fixed by a different firm, and she didn't get anywhere trying to claim off the original company.

I know it's a tempting idea but I'd be reluctant to let some guy I've never seen before fix by roof. Especially if he's a mate of chummy boy next door!
 
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snapper_37

snapper_37

Barbara Woodhouse's Love Child
Location
Wolves
Mr Pig said:
I know it's a tempting idea but I'd be reluctant to let some guy I've never seen before fix by roof. Especially if he's a mate of chummy boy next door!

I agree Pigsy.

We do know a roofer and I'm trying to get him down tomorrow as a 2nd opinion. But as knob head kept telling me last night, in his patronising 'you're just a mere woman' tone .... it's a joiner, not a roofer.

I'm not looking forward to going home tonight.
 
snapper_37 said:
I agree Pigsy.

We do know a roofer and I'm trying to get him down tomorrow as a 2nd opinion. But as knob head kept telling me last night, in his patronising 'you're just a mere woman' tone .... it's a joiner, not a roofer.

I'm not looking forward to going home tonight.

Oh babe...I'm sorry.:sad:That's such a horrible position to be in. Spent many many hours driving the kids around the countryside just to avoid going home when our neighbours bullying sh*thead boyfriend was there, 5 years ago.

The shared shed roof thing is a nightmare too - mine connects to my neighbours in the very same way as yours seems to. And it's not level since the guy re did it, so all the water now sits on my roof, not theirs. Which of course, only became apparent weeks after the work was completed, by a cowboy he got in to do it. :thumbsup:

I hope you can get the roofer down there for tomorrow.

Oh, and you are soooo not "just a mere woman" - god help him who makes that mistake...:smile:
 
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snapper_37

snapper_37

Barbara Woodhouse's Love Child
Location
Wolves
Awww ta Kitty babes. I'm not scared to go home, don't get me wrong. I'm just not looking forward to it in case he is waiting to pounce on me following me walking off last night. I just can't be arsed talking with him at the moment and feel really shoot upon by him, especially given all the favours we have done in the past. FFS, we still put his ****ing bins out every week and he NEVER puts them back!!! Grrrrrr, I must grow some balls I think lol.
 
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