On the subject of an assumed expectation that life forms will attain ‘intelligence’ in a similar manner that we have, we have been at it for a couple of hundred thousand years or so and look where we are. But before us the dinosaurs had hundreds of millions of years and, as far as we know, never developed any artificial objects or attained any advanced intelligence.
So there may be life out there of varying natural capabilities and a subset that have achieved some level of mechanical, industrial or electronic revolution.
For us it not only took us being in the ‘Goldilocks zone’, but also having an unusually large satellite, a protective geomagnetic field and an extinction event that cleared the way for us to evolve.
But still, given the numbers involved in terms of galaxies, stars and planets, this alignment of factors (or others with a similar outcome) should still be possible elsewhere.