GrumpyGregry
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Pages 3 and 4 of this thread in commuting spawned a fascinating debate. Where do we stand on discouraging our loved ones from taking part in activities which we undertake/used to undertake but which we consider to be too risky for them? Is it hypocrisy pure and simple? Sexism? The worst kind of paternalism?
My starters for 10.... Things I do or used to do that I wouldn't want my loved ones to do...
I discouraged my son from playing rugby union (my daughter was never offered the option)
I discouraged both from smoking - bit of a fail there
I discouraged both from taking illegal drugs - jury still out
I discouraged, both, in the strongest possible terms, from riding motorcycles - I won thank goodness
I discourage my son from cycling in London - thus far he walks or take the bus
and if my wife woke up one day and said "I'm going to cycle to work today" I would attempt to dissuade her on bended knee.
On the flip side; when all three of them told me separately over a period of a year "We are worried sick when you go out on that large powerful motorbike" I decided to sell it.
Your thoughts....
My starters for 10.... Things I do or used to do that I wouldn't want my loved ones to do...
I discouraged my son from playing rugby union (my daughter was never offered the option)
I discouraged both from smoking - bit of a fail there
I discouraged both from taking illegal drugs - jury still out
I discouraged, both, in the strongest possible terms, from riding motorcycles - I won thank goodness
I discourage my son from cycling in London - thus far he walks or take the bus
and if my wife woke up one day and said "I'm going to cycle to work today" I would attempt to dissuade her on bended knee.
On the flip side; when all three of them told me separately over a period of a year "We are worried sick when you go out on that large powerful motorbike" I decided to sell it.
Your thoughts....