Drinking in a pub on your own

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Dec66

Dec66

A gentlemanly pootler, these days
Location
West Wickham
I have no problem as I do it myself when travelling for work etc but find it a bit odd if you just go by yourself when you have family at home.

I have two girls aged 9 and 3. The eldest is on the cusp of teenage moodiness (the upcoming neuroses are already apparent), the younger has a genetic condition which makes her prone to violent outbursts, exacerbated by her being as big as a six year old (another symptom).

Between them and Mrs. 66, I can understand why somebody might wish to have an hour's "me time" in the pub on the way home, because there's precious little anywhere else (I don't do that myself, but I could see why a fella would; think of it as a shed, but not at the end of the garden).
 
I have a 6yo and a 3yo (my three-nager as I now call her). As much as they send me around the twist, leaving them with my wifre for an extar hour by herself is not what I would do
 
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Dec66

Dec66

A gentlemanly pootler, these days
Location
West Wickham
I have a 6yo and a 3yo (my three-nager as I now call her). As much as they send me around the twist, leaving them with my wifre for an extar hour by herself is not what I would do
I'll swap my missus for yours then, hee hee :laugh:

I know what you mean, when I get home Mrs. 66 goes "right, I've had them all day, they're yours now", so I try to get home as quick as I can to relieve her of the burden (I have Strava evidence to prove it :okay:).

Sometimes, though, you might nip down the high street on an errand, and think... Would I really be missed for half an hour?

I'm sure she does the same, but in Costa or wherever.
 
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Dec66

Dec66

A gentlemanly pootler, these days
Location
West Wickham
Don't like it

I go to the pub to have a chat and a laugh with friends and family. If I wanted to just sit there and have a drink I could do that at home
I couldn't do it at home, too busy being disturbed by rugrats (or the myriad little jobs around the house that need doing).
 

Cubist

Still wavin'
Location
Ovver 'thill
It strikes me that social attitudes to pubs has changed massively in my lifetime. Pubs thst I knew had groups of locals, in some cases verging on Mafiosi, but mostly the usual suspects who simply gathered for a beer and a cig or two and to express opinions on whether the police can make arrests without a helmet on or other such vitally important topics. I wouldn't have thought twice about nipping in for a pint, partly because I was guaranteed to see at least one familiar face. Every pub had a Boycie and a Trigger, and in those days it's was great fun.

Fast forward 3 and a half decades, and I now view regulars with a hint of suspicion. Cubester has had a couple of bar jobs, and as an avid people watcher himself, he can make a pretty good assessment of characters. Before he had a driving licence I used to go and pick him up after work and used the excuse to sample a beer or two. Perhaps it's because its always the end of the night, or it could be deeper, but the same faces, with a skinful on board ((Cubester has been told to make a note of how much people are drinking so he can avoid the pitfalls of serving drunks) tend not to be the entertaining types they used to be. In fact, some of the characters are a bit pitiful, and the Boycie's tend to get on my tits anyway.

As for drinking on my own, well, if I'm away on a jaunt then I'd choose a pub meal over a takeaway, but will make an effort to chat to the staff or find a game to watch on TV. I only visit the pub for an evening out very occasionally, and always with at least one like minded person to chat with.
 

Ciar

Veteran
Location
London
I don't personally see how it's a problem and i do love a drink, but it's not something i would do i prefer grabbing the dog and my mountain bike, popping down to Epping and having a spin out for 5-10 relaxing miles just me and her if i want quiet time away from my own rugrats ;-)
 

Fab Foodie

hanging-on in quiet desperation ...
Location
Kirton, Devon.
Once upon a time, I'd have rather gouged my eyes out with spoons than drink in a pub alone, unless I was waiting for someone else.

These days, though, I actually enjoy my own company. I really like getting a pint, sitting in a quiet corner, and catching up on news etc., without needing or wanting company.

Am I just very sad and anti social, or is it an age thing?
Not age .... just maturity .....
 

Paulus

Started young, and still going.
Location
Barnet,
Nothing wrong with having a pint on one's lonesome. Some of the best conversations have been had in my local with other lonesomes.
 
S
I don't generally drink but as I've done more cycle touring it's become part of my touring ritual to find a quiet pub, buy a bite to eat and a pint of cider and sit in the corner and just chill out for a while.


It also provides a lot

I had lunch in one pub and mentioned I was going to visit the local church as it was of historical interest

Landlord called over one of the regulars who had lived in the village for years, and I got a guided tour..... For the price of a pint

I have also made detours on the advice of locals because of a place of interest I was unaware of



Pubs are an infinite source of knowledge
 
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