Most people in a loving relationship would not even imagine their relationship is going to go tits up (excuse the pun) let alone that the person they most trusted in the whole world would stoop so low as to post their pic and details on the web. I hope those posting them also receive jail time.
I think this was more complex than that
This unpleasant individual was also running s site that could have been the one redeeming feature
If someone asked for an entry to be removed as it was without consent, then doing so would have been reasonable, but charging s fee for that removal constitutes extortion