I never had a car, and it didn't stop me from meeting Mr T

- who also didn't own a car at the time, and we've both managed without a car for the last dozen years... Admittedly we live near the city centre, so everyday journeys can very easily be done on foot/by bus/train or of course by bike

. Whenever we need a car, we hire one, or we ask friends for help for single "transport" journeys of large items - in exchange for cake/food or helping them out with stuff, which keeps everybody happy. If we lived in the sticks, we'd probably have to get a car ...
The amount of time/frustration saved looking for parking spaces, being able to read on the bus/train rather than having to manouevre (sp?) a car through rush hour traffic is substantial (for me anyway). If you don't actually NEED a car for work purposes or to get anywhere at all from a remote home, add up the savings in fuel/insurance/parking fees/depreciation/services/parts etc... For that amount, you can rent a very nice new car for lots of weekends away, afford romantic

B&B/hotel weekends away and still be better off than owning a car ... just do the maths!
A woman shallow enough to reject you just because you don't own a metal box on wheels may not be the sort of woman you are looking for? And if your dad' dreams of grandchildren come true and you find you need a car again at some point, you can always get one ... it's not a "once and for all" decision...
T