Help Me Understand Generation Z!

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Andrew_P

In between here and there
I work with someone who has 5 "boys" aged 50, 48, 46, 42, and 36 whenever I recount a story about my kids he just looks at me and says, "they don't get any easier the older they get" He is so right I always thought babies were going to be the most agro, geez babies are a walk in the park compared to 3 hormonal teenage girls!
 

Arch

Married to Night Train
Location
Salford, UK
I work with someone who has 5 "boys" aged 50, 48, 46, 42, and 36 whenever I recount a story about my kids he just looks at me and says, "they don't get any easier the older they get" He is so right I always thought babies were going to be the most agro, geez babies are a walk in the park compared to 3 hormonal teenage girls!

I remember a piece on the local Midlands Today telly some years ago, about a lady who'd just got to 110 or some such age. Asked about how she felt, she said "Well, I'm relieved now, I've just got my youngest daughter settled in a nice care home...."
 

Andrew_P

In between here and there
I remember a piece on the local Midlands Today telly some years ago, about a lady who'd just got to 110 or some such age. Asked about how she felt, she said "Well, I'm relieved now, I've just got my youngest daughter settled in a nice care home...."
brilliant sums up exactly what he means
 

screenman

Squire
Your kids are always your kids no matter what age they are, my eldest is 40 that is going to make me feel old, I might even start knocking a few years off of his age when talking to people about him.
 

cd365

Guru
Location
Coventry, uk
When my lad was 17, after doing his first year of A Levels, he decided he'd had enough of 6th Form and quit. I gave him a date to have a job by or he was going back to college or I would kick him out. He knew I meant it.
I did his CV for him and applied for jobs for him on his behalf. I would leave work and take him to interviews to make sure he went.
He did get a job, an apprenticeship at Severn Trent and 4 years later he is still there and doing quite well for himself.
If I hadn't have done that he would have been sitting on his backside waiting for the world to come to him, just like his mates were doing.

My daughter also quit college at 17 and got a job. She works very hard doing a 9 to 5 office job and promotional work at the weekends. She was also told no job, no stay.
Tough love.
 

Sara_H

Guru
When my lad was 17, after doing his first year of A Levels, he decided he'd had enough of 6th Form and quit. I gave him a date to have a job by or he was going back to college or I would kick him out. He knew I meant it.
I did his CV for him and applied for jobs for him on his behalf. I would leave work and take him to interviews to make sure he went.
He did get a job, an apprenticeship at Severn Trent and 4 years later he is still there and doing quite well for himself.
If I hadn't have done that he would have been sitting on his backside waiting for the world to come to him, just like his mates were doing.

My daughter also quit college at 17 and got a job. She works very hard doing a 9 to 5 office job and promotional work at the weekends. She was also told no job, no stay.
Tough love.
Eeek, but where would they have gone had they not pulled their socks up? OH says he can't see either of his two eldest living independantly for the forseeable future, if ever! We can't make such threats of pull socks up or your out, as they're already at their mothers the majority of the time anyway!
 

Maverick Goose

A jumped up pantry boy, who never knew his place
When I were a lad [80s] either there was going to be a nuclear war or Maggie Thatcher was going to send us all to labour camps, or the hole in the ozone layer caused by the massive amounts of hairspray everyone used was going to fry us. I vaguely thought of working in the arts, and eventually found my way into cheffing via working for the YHA....I'm pretty happy with what I do, as I can use my creativity, work anywhere I want to and don't have to sit in meetings using phrases like 'levelling up'!
 

Flying_Monkey

Recyclist
Location
Odawa
I spent about 3 years after university being what some here would probably call a useless layabout. I was on benefits most of the time. I did a lot - environmental and peace activism, local politics and community stuff, music, and all that and I did some occasional paid work, mainly for charities - but made no real effort to get a 'proper job' or pay off my student loans. But in the long term it did me, and society in general, no harm at all. The one thing I didn't do was live with my parents, but since they sent me to boarding school at the age of 8 it wasn't as if that felt like an option...

I think what I'm saying is don't worry too much about the 'idleness of youth'. People work out what they want to do in life at different stages. Those who seem driven and successful early on often burn out and change direction radically later on. People who seem to others to do nothing in their early 20s can find a path later. Of course there are some people who are permanently lazy and don't care about anything, but there's really not a lot you can do to change them.
 

asterix

Comrade Member
Location
Limoges or York
Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose.



Attributed to Plato, Socrates and a paraphrasing of Aristphanes - take your pick. It's not the accuracy of the attribution but the spirit of the words that's important.


..and here, too:

 

Sara_H

Guru
But "youth" today was adulthood yesterday. My son is soon 20, he'll be bed again today, at the same age I had been working full time for nearly two years and looking for my own place to live.
Agreed, my OH at our eldest step sons age was lving independantly hundreds of miles from home. I was still living at home (more for my Mums benefit than my own) but was a student nurse and paying my own way.
 

screenman

Squire
I was married with a 2 year old at 20 and employing people, I would not have wished this on my kids though, to much responsibility at too young an age.
 

cd365

Guru
Location
Coventry, uk
Eeek, but where would they have gone had they not pulled their socks up? OH says he can't see either of his two eldest living independantly for the forseeable future, if ever! We can't make such threats of pull socks up or your out, as they're already at their mothers the majority of the time anyway!
My lad would have been quite happy doing nowt, he now likes the money he earns!
My daughter would have been working, she wanted to work because she got disillusioned with college.
 
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