Help needed...Important :(

[Lisa21]

You haven't been hacked. It's a new hotmail option to protect you from accidentally deleting messages you want to keep due to not changing the default options on various email clients which delete emails after you've downloaded them. Hotmail thinks you should only delete emails from their webmail page

See this thread and note the reference to the hotmail forums where various folks were annoyed with it and complaining that they couldn't find the referred to option that would allow them to continue deleting emails after they'd downloaded them.
When you say bugged are you talking virus or stalker ?

Oh thanks for that Ian.
Think I over reacted tbh but it worried me
It was a stalker, not a virus that got me before..someone who I knew, and trusted, but who got hold of my phone and my computer and put something on them so they could bug me Oh, and a tracker on my car too so yep...am a little cautious these days

 

[Stu1961]

ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry

 

[potsy]

Oh thanks for that Ian.
Think I over reacted tbh but it worried me
It was a stalker, not a virus that got me before..someone who I knew, and trusted, but who got hold of my phone and my computer and put something on them so they could bug me Oh, and a tracker on my car too so yep...am a little cautious these days

That'll have been norm, he did the same to me

 

[Lisa21]

That'll have been norm, he did the same to me

 

[Red Light]

+1

Off topic as I can't help the OP... but I love this handy website if you have friends or family who find it more convenient to bother you with their question rather than google it for themselves.

And an alternative site best not for friends or family.