Very much similar to my situation currently. Had a really good winter, lost weight after summer break, winter tour away was fantastic. Then Christmas, blew it all, gained weight lost motivation. decided to go back on extended tour for 2 weeks, enjoyed it but struggled with extra weight and saddle comfort issues. Now I just cant get going, ride once a week currently. I too have a new car, lovely Tesla, but not bouncing around with enthusiasm. Hoping the summer improves my situation. Busy life currently