From what I have seen, groupies at rock and roll shows just wanna get laid by the guys in the band. Nothing wrong with that! I am an awful slut myself given half a chance. Power rape is a whole different thing.
I loathe the Morrissey/Smiths thing too!
It can be hard to tell the difference, being someone’s hero
is a position of power.
My experiences in the music industry were that a lot of people didn’t care, if someone was up for it, that’s all that mattered. Age, inebriation, marital status, all secondary matters. I wasn’t comfortable with that, nor were most other musicians I knew.
Essentially, in any situation, if you’re a normal half decent person you know not to take advantage of people. End of story.