You can't just hurl insults and tired stereotypes around and expect it to be ok because you stuck a smiley at the end and said it was a joke. Think about it next time.
I will try once more to throw an apology in your direction. I wont link to the actual post where I suggested that 'we' cut the guy concerned some slack as that will only add fuel to the flames of this side issue.
When I wound my neck in a bit and realised that the chap concerned might be feeling persecuted a little, then I posted this:
"These posts, threads and forum(fora?) are very useful for all and should always be welcoming to all. Let's remember that and try not to pick on anyone too much shall we?
(As I said, I will try and live by that as well....)"
I was also shot down (in jest I hope) for behaving like a 'dad'... you cannot win sometimes?
ANyway, I am going to (for the avoidance of any doubt whatsoever) apologise to those I may have offended, those I have yet to offend and also those I intend to offend
I can honestly say that I have never posted something on a forum or thread that I wouldnot happily say to someone's face in a pub or coffee shop. FAce to face, little subtleties are much easier to pick up? WIll think twice - sorry, thrice next time!
WIll leave that point there now as it is an unwlecome distraction from the main thread topic.
And maybe we should all be less passively aggressive eh?
Still think the OP did well all things being considered.