Lurker said:
What a shame to have to say to a newbie cyclist that they have to expect to get used to bullying from other road users.
The thing about 'primary' is that, if push comes to shove, it gives you somewhere to yield to - unlike if you're riding in the gutter....
WTF, great galloping fantasies .............. who mentioned riding in the gutter? You! I didn't.
Strange as pretty much all the riders in my club ride too close to the nearside gutter IMHO and any rider I see out on the road is invariably hugging the nearside line if there is one along the edge of the verge. I don't even have to pull out to as I pass them as if they are standing still

. I don't think ..... that's riding in the gutter, do you?
No, I don't
have to say to a newbie cyclist, I am telling Sam how it is based obviously on my many years of cycling experience. If you think it is not as I describe then please tell us and why. Would you advocate a touchy feely mustn't upset, cotton wool sort of approach for newbies then? I think Sam has a bit more intelligence, understanding and a thicker skin than you give him credit for judging by the way he handled the unpleasant incident he recounted.
The bottom line is there are pyshcos out there. In the last few years it has got worse. These pyschos won't think twice about bullying you with their car or if you react, screeching to a stop, backing up or jumping out. You want to try to avoid these types of situation at all costs which is stating the obvious but when you are cycling the adrenalin is pumping and things can escalate in a fraction of a second. The next thing your life is irrepairably changed forever. The rules of the Highway Hode and advice in Cyclecraft work fine for road users on both sides who are law abiding, but sticking to them too doggedly in the face of some one who plainly doesn't give a sh1t if you are on the road or not, is foolhardy IMHO. You are pretty vulnerable on a bike. No good feeling you have the moral highground and weight of the HC or Cyclecraft on your side if some moron is intent on running you off the road or running you down. You don't want to spend the rest of your life paralysed having been knocked down or killed. One is a long time dead. Just let them by. At least they are in front of you and not behind where it is harder to keep an eye on them.
Old Cyril who MOTs the car says "Just let them go....(pause).... they'll probably kill theirselves anyway, but at least they won't crash into you or take you with them. Silly beggars!" Wise words.
Ride happily, ride safely to ride another day.