Perhaps this post shoud've been in the commuters section, but it I don't go there, 'tis a silly place.
If you want you marriage to last, keep her out of the commuting section, it won't take long before they mold her into one of them and you won't be able to stand being in the same room as her.
Left a coffee spoon on the counter ........................ check youtube later, search for dickhead!
Don't let your wife go in commuting and you will never need to understand! Where you leave dirty spoons will remain between yourself and your wife!