Col.
You've got me thinking, and as someone who's read the nonsense I tend to spout after a heavy bout of thinking, you're probably regretting your actions already.
I think you're confusing two things. They sound a bit the same, so its understandable. The words are 'Civility' and 'Servility'. They're almost homophones, which itself is almost a homophone of homophobe. But I digress!
I am a big fan of civility. So much so that, when preparing for a ride through a particularly bucolic region, I will often swap my Giro Atmos for a Trilby, Homburg or some other head wear more becoming to an English gentleman. Why? Well, for one the effect of lycra and a pre-war chapeau is quite eye-catching and pushes the sartorial boundaries of cycling further than even Rapha have considered (yet!). Also, country folk, despite their love of chasing and killing one type of animal with another of animal while riding a third type of animal and their belief that red diesel should be supplied from a kitchen tap at the taxpayers' expense, tend to be considerate, civil road-users. Perhaps driving primarily on single track roads teaches them the benefits of give-and-take. So, to emphasise my appreciation of the consideration they usually show me on these roads, I will often augment a wave or 'thank-you' with a swift tip or lift of my dapper hat. I'm also perfectly happy to stop, pull-in or otherwise make way for other vehicles when it is safe, convenient and considerate to do so. My bidon is filled with the milk of human kindness. This is civility.
As someone who is a firm believer in
égalité, I am not a fan of servility. It's an ugly human relationship that places one person above another based on control, convention or the abuse of power. A true story. Many years ago I was forced to meet Princess Anne. Now I'm a bit of a republican, so I was unhappy to be told I was expected to bow when introduced. What had she ever done for me? Why was she better than me? I couldn't get my head around it. Come the day, I was a bag of resentful nerves. I'm also naturally quite clumsy so, when it was time to submit, I didn't so much as bow as aim a headbutt in her general direction. I missed, which I'm quite glad about, because she looked like she could handle herself.
Now col, I put you on my ignore list a long time ago but, thanks to the many quotes that others have seen fit to include in their posts, I'm getting the jist of what you're on about. It's like listening to a football report on the World Service. Some might say that it's an improvement!

So, to help you understand the difference between 'Civility' (a good thing) and 'Servility' (a bad thing and what you seem to advocate) I've knocked up a graphic. Perhaps you could laminate it and tape it to your handlebars...