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- Location
- Peterborough
As a teenager in the late 1970s (and BTW, they were great times) as the first car owner of our group of friends, keeping in touch was haphazard.
Bear in mind, making phone calls in the 70s 80s and maybe the 90s...was expensive so you did it sparingly, usually because as a 17 YO in my case, I'd already left home (I was quite independent, my parents didn't mind)...and using someone else's phone was a bind. You'd more likely go down the phone box down the street.
So you verbally agreed times to meet, let's say Friday night, whatever, I'll be there at 8pm...and you were.
Occasionally you'd go to someone's...is Tim in ?....no, he's at Geoff...so you'd go to Geoff, no problem, we didn't get hung up about it.
It was all mostly done on spec...you just went and if he was there, no problem, if not, you'd either find him or go somewhere else.
Everyone survived, children weren't cosseted because they might be out all day and no one worried if they didn't put their head in the door till 7pm...we got on perfectly well without mobiles and social media.
It's given us a lot (social media etc) but if it disappeared overnight, people would revert to life without it in a very short time...it's nice if used properly, but it's not an essential, whatever people think.
Bear in mind, making phone calls in the 70s 80s and maybe the 90s...was expensive so you did it sparingly, usually because as a 17 YO in my case, I'd already left home (I was quite independent, my parents didn't mind)...and using someone else's phone was a bind. You'd more likely go down the phone box down the street.
So you verbally agreed times to meet, let's say Friday night, whatever, I'll be there at 8pm...and you were.
Occasionally you'd go to someone's...is Tim in ?....no, he's at Geoff...so you'd go to Geoff, no problem, we didn't get hung up about it.
It was all mostly done on spec...you just went and if he was there, no problem, if not, you'd either find him or go somewhere else.
Everyone survived, children weren't cosseted because they might be out all day and no one worried if they didn't put their head in the door till 7pm...we got on perfectly well without mobiles and social media.
It's given us a lot (social media etc) but if it disappeared overnight, people would revert to life without it in a very short time...it's nice if used properly, but it's not an essential, whatever people think.