Really rude people today

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Unfortunately this is becomming all too common. We've probably become the rudest most self centered nation in Europe.


Unfortunately I have to agee with you, and that's one of the main reasons why I don't want to return to live in the UK again!

A massive deterioration of standards and total disregard for others that is only going to get worse!

'Tis a bleak outlook for you lot! :sad: :cry:
 

ComedyPilot

Secret Lemonade Drinker
Sadly Dayvo, I can only agree with you.

Sure there are isolated pockets of niceness, but the overwhelming tide of selfish, rude, arrogant and aggressive behaviour has all but rid this country of its 'Great' Britain moniker.

:sad:

I am trying as hard as I can to convince Mrs CP to move to Bavaria or The Netherlands.
 

Speicher

Vice Admiral
Moderator
I think I live in one of those isolated pockets of politeness. There is a house for sale three doors up the street, if anyone wishes to move here.

Everyone is very friendly and has time for each other. Perhaps we live in a different time zone.

A brick was once thrown through a shop window here, about four years ago.
 

Speicher

Vice Admiral
Moderator
Can you survive without shops that are open 24 hours a day? There are only seven pubs and five restaurants, but lots of hills in every direction. Oh, and some shops are closed all day Monday and/or Thursday afternoon, and very few shops open on Sundays. There are no burger bars, and only one cycling shop. We have a cinema though, and a library, and a sports centre. Some tea shoppes, and cake shops and an old-fashioned ironmongers where you can buy three bolts or two washers, and get help as to which ones you need.

I think it is still 1998 here. :thumbsup:

* suddenly notices how long this orderly queue is getting *
 

Renard

Guest
Sadly Dayvo, I can only agree with you.

Sure there are isolated pockets of niceness, but the overwhelming tide of selfish, rude, arrogant and aggressive behaviour has all but rid this country of its 'Great' Britain moniker.

:sad:

I am trying as hard as I can to convince Mrs CP to move to Bavaria or The Netherlands.

'Great Britain' is a geographical term as its the biggest island in the British Isles. Agree with your sentiment though.
 

swee'pea99

Squire
I do wonder whether some of the hand-wringers hereabouts aren't reading too much into too little (and/or what they've heard/read, as opposed to actually experienced.)

I'm doubtless guilty of the same thing, tho' in the other direction, on account of I'm fortunate enough to live in a nice family-friendly bit of North London and work in prosperous Covent Garden, but certainly my impression is that people around me are overwhelmingly pleasant and polite - particularly the young, who get so much bad press these days. And compared with my youth, back in 'the good old days', real nasties like racism and homophobia are a shadow of what they were. When I was a kid, my peers used 'wog' and 'nigger' as a matter of course, and even quite 'nice' people got their paper at 'the paki shop'. All gone. 

I'm obviously in a minority here, but in my view, speaking as one knocking on his half-century, things have got better, not worse, in my lifetime - in terms of the ways people interact with strangers. There are of course exceptions. There will always be scumbags. But I find people, around me at least, mostly decent and civilised. 
 

Arch

Married to Night Train
Location
Salford, UK
Can you survive without shops that are open 24 hours a day? There are only seven pubs and five restaurants, but lots of hills in every direction. Oh, and some shops are closed all day Monday and/or Thursday afternoon, and very few shops open on Sundays. There are no burger bars, and only one cycling shop. We have a cinema though, and a library, and a sports centre. Some tea shoppes, and cake shops and an old-fashioned ironmongers where you can buy three bolts or two washers, and get help as to which ones you need.

I think it is still 1998 here. :thumbsup:

* suddenly notices how long this orderly queue is getting *

1948 more like. Are you still on ration?

I think Swee'pea has a point - I suspect that to some extent we tend to remember the worst and talk about it, but the best, or rather perhaps, just the ordinary, doesn't get mentioned so much.

For example, one of the areas we collect the recycling from is a council house/ex council house estate. On the whole the standard of the recyling boxes (sortedness, cleanliness) is probably not all that different from some of the studenty areas we collect from, and if someone is coming out of their house as we pick up there box, they might well say hello, or thank you. Some of the houses have nice tidy gardens too. But then in the school holidays we are overrun with kids trying to hang off the side of the vehicle and get a tow on their scooters, giving us a lot of hassle and cheek, and some of the householders resent the slightest request that they might rinse out their tins or squash plastic bottles, and will happily tell you to f*** off, as they retreat into their house past the garden full of old car tyres, dismembered dolls and the used nappies we've refused to take.

The result is that we can't wait to drop that area in the up coming rearrangement, and in our minds, it's all rank. It can take very little to mar your day, compared with how much it takes to make you feel great.

In the same way, one person shoving past you in one doorway sticks in the mind more than all the other people you've sucessfully negotiated with without noticing.

That said, I think that perhaps rude people are getting ruder, and more prone to temper, if not actually more numerous.
 

postman

Squire
Location
,Leeds
I had a 'heated' discussion with a lady while waitng to get on the Maid of the Mist ,Niagra Falls .She called me a Brit .Kept my mouth shut .Till the end .We finished up on the same boat as it happened .

I saw her as we got off .

I approached her we were both soaking wet .and i said .

With great gusto "Wasn't that worth the wait "

It turned out she was from Wolverhampton .Can you believe it .
 

brokenbetty

Über Member
Location
London
Time for a parable:

A man was walking down the road and he met a young man coming the other way. He asked him, "What are the people in the next village like?" To his surprise the young man asked him what the people in the last village in which he stopped were like. The man replied "Oh, they were very nice friendly and helpful". "Well, then, "replied the young man "you'll find the people in the next village will be pretty much the same."

The next man the young man met asked the very same question. Once again the young man asked him how he found the people were in the last village in which he stopped. "Oh, they were very unfriendly", came the reply. "Well, in that case, you'll find the people in the next village will be pretty much the same", he replied.
 
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