Arjimlad
Tights of Cydonia
- Location
- South Glos
Wonderful that you were there for her... saying goodbye is very hard to do.
Chin up Colin .. think happy thoughts of the good times mateI must admit, I'm having a bit of a flashback to those final hospital visits myself now ...![]()
As I wrote a few posts back - it does get easier but Rolf's post reminded me of something that haunted me at the time ... My mum was sedated for her last 2 days and I spent 24 hours with her, holding her hand and stroking her forehead. A few days after she died, I wondered whether she had been able to feel what I was doing, and whether it had comforted or irritated her! It upset me to think that she might have been wanting me to stop, but had been unable to say so ...Chin up Colin .. think happy thoughts of the good times mate![]()