Road bike cyclists, why don't you nod back?

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GrumpyGregry

Here for rides.
I don't make judgements, either about those who respond or those who choose not to. Some are nice people, some are not - how am I to know?
There is NO correlation between someone being a nice person and someone acknowledging another cyclist.
 

stephec

Squire
Location
Bolton
Really, this waving to another because you're on the bike custom is vexing to me: 90% of cyclist I see on the commute are men - I am not one :tongue:
Normally I wouldn't dream of waving/smiling to random guys, but sometimes they initiate the greeting, usually when I'm on my most "girlie" bike.
A loud "hello" from behind by a roadie bombing down the road makes me jump in my skin and puts me in a bad mood for the rest of the journey :angry:
You're a man magnet Pat.
 

Keith Oates

Janner
Location
Penarth, Wales
There have been 157,807 discussions on the forum and 3,304,457 messages so it is almost impossible for a recently joined member to read and remember all of them before making a post. Also when new to a forum it's not easy for people to build up sufficient confidence to start a new thread and so if a subject has been raised before it would, IMO, be better not to reply at all rather than make some derogatory posting !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

martint235

Dog on a bike
Location
Welling
I'm starting to think I may have an issue. What ever pseudo-group of people I belong to at any one time, I find that I really loathe the other members of that group. When I was a student, I hated other students with a passion. I would go out of my way to avoid any interaction with them. Now I'm a cyclist, I'm starting to feel that way about cyclists. At the moment, it's not all cyclists, just the ones that disturb me with a cheery "Good Morning", "Good afternoon" or even just a teensy little wave.

I'm on my way to/from work. I'm thinking about stuff/trying not to think about stuff. Feck off and leave me in peace.

Yep. I think that about sums it up.
 

SpokeyDokey

68, & my GP says I will officially be old at 70!
Moderator
I'm starting to think I may have an issue. What ever pseudo-group of people I belong to at any one time, I find that I really loathe the other members of that group. When I was a student, I hated other students with a passion. I would go out of my way to avoid any interaction with them. Now I'm a cyclist, I'm starting to feel that way about cyclists. At the moment, it's not all cyclists, just the ones that disturb me with a cheery "Good Morning", "Good afternoon" or even just a teensy little wave.

I'm on my way to/from work. I'm thinking about stuff/trying not to think about stuff. Feck off and leave me in peace.

Yep. I think that about sums it up.

But to be fair it's blooming hard for us cheery types to identify a miserable git when you have a closing speed of 30-40mph. :tongue:
 

SpokeyDokey

68, & my GP says I will officially be old at 70!
Moderator
There have been 157,807 discussions on the forum and 3,304,457 messages so it is almost impossible for a recently joined member to read and remember all of them before making a post. Also when new to a forum it's not easy for people to build up sufficient confidence to start a new thread and so if a subject has been raised before it would, IMO, be better not to reply at all rather than make some derogatory posting !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fair point.

I have no idea why people have to point out that something has been said before as though it shouldn't have been said again.

I can't imagine anyone getting through a day without saying something they haven't said before. In fact I think it would be pretty rare for them to say something unique that has never been uttered before ever since Adam hooked a rib out of Eve.

I wonder if these people who go out of their way to point out repeated utterances on forums tell their friends, family, work colleagues etc that they are utter bores for repeating themselves. That is, of course, assuming that their friends, family, work colleagues etc don't just talk in never before heard phrases.
 

potsy

Rambler
Location
My Armchair
I'm starting to think I may have an issue. What ever pseudo-group of people I belong to at any one time, I find that I really loathe the other members of that group. When I was a student, I hated other students with a passion. I would go out of my way to avoid any interaction with them. Now I'm a cyclist, I'm starting to feel that way about cyclists. At the moment, it's not all cyclists, just the ones that disturb me with a cheery "Good Morning", "Good afternoon" or even just a teensy little wave.

I'm on my way to/from work. I'm thinking about stuff/trying not to think about stuff. Feck off and leave me in peace.

Yep. I think that about sums it up.
Were you always this warm and friendly Martin or are you just blending in with the southerners? locals? :whistle:
 

Turbo Rider

Just can't reMember
I only wave, nod, smile or whatever if someone does it to me first, but it's more out of this weird, polite, uncomfortable, socially awkward obligation thing I've got going on really.

I've noticed that all these wavers & non-wavers (etc.) aren't exactly consistent though, so I rather think that sometimes folk just ain't in the mood for all o that cheesy beeswax, rather than bike-bigotry.

I'm just like 'yeah, fark it, carry on, whatever floats your boat, you go your way and I'll go mine'
 
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