Sexism and fat shaming

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winjim

Straddle the line, discord and rhyme
Maybe the Surrey hills attract more knob ends in Lycra than other parts of the country
Arrogant City boys?
 

Bobby Mhor

Legendary Member
Location
Behind You
I was doing some 'maintenance' work on Route 75 a couple of year ago and some old tosser told, nay shouted at me 'Get out the f'in road, r sole', I immediately regretted the broken glass I had 'blown' off the entire almost two miles of our beat..

Ironically, I bumped into him a few weeks later and stopped to talk to him and mentioned the fantastic job the local council blokes did in their maintaining of the track...He looked bemused and I reminded him that I was the f'in r sole he bawled at, 'No me, mate'...'Sorry Bud I never forget a face'.. as he wheeled away keeping his head down..

I used get the fat jibes occasionally from the local neds but now I get offers of strong cider or Buckie as I pass them...
 

Spinney

Bimbleur extraordinaire
Location
Back up north
Isn't this and the comment about knob ends in Lycra the same as the fat shaming? Name calling and abuse at random and without justification based on ignorance?

I'm sure the guys who assaulted me on Saturday were thinking or saying something similar just before they launched their attack!
It's not at random if they mean the ones who are shouting abuse...
 

vickster

Squire
Isn't this and the comment about knob ends in Lycra the same as the fat shaming? Name calling and abuse at random and without justification based on ignorance?

I'm sure the guys who assaulted me on Saturday were thinking or saying something similar just before they launched their attack!
I was referring to the ones hurling unwarranted abuse at a woman just out enjoying her bike ride
 

Effyb4

Veteran
I've only had one nasty comment about my speed from a group of male cyclists and one supposedly helpful comment about gears from a male cyclist, when I have been riding. The first time I was with another female cyclist and my teenage son and the second time I was just with my son. I have been riding two or three times a week for 2 years and overwhelmingly I get nods and positive greetings from other cyclists.
 

gbb

Squire
Location
Peterborough
I don't believe it to be honest. I can't imagine any cyclist abusing any other cyclist like that. She has come across two loathsome individuals in a short space of time, no not having it.
TBH I'm struggling to comprhend the writer had seperate three comments made in one jpurney, one I assume positive, two negative, all on different occasions in one ride. In years of cycling covering many thousands of miles, ive maybe had maybe ONE comment thrown at me I could remember and I dont even know if that was good or bad. ...just a garbled something as I passed.
That said, I may be wrong, I couldnt possibly bring someone down that way, I couldnt sleep if I had, but...thats me, there are plenty of a**eholes around.
Id look at ot this way, when I was at my best, maybe once a year something would happen to cause you to question what you were doing, then you remember all the good times you've had, the vast majority of drivers that were considerate...an odd nutcase should be shrugged off, whether its an errant driver, ped...or cyclist. Fcuk em. (Sorry but its how I'd think)
 

ChrisEyles

Guru
Location
Devon
I think that there is a slight human tendency for some people to become more obnoxious the more seriously they take there pastime/hobby... Quite a lot of cyclists take it very seriously.

This is unfortunately a very true observation!

Of course it doesn't have to be lycra-clad-shaven-legged-carbon-straddling roadies who are guilty (I absolutely agree with those who warn against judging by appearances), but these are typically the people who have sunk the most time and money into their hobby, and are most likely to have their self-worth linked in some way to their cycling ability. IMHO those who feel the need to re-assure themselves of their superiority by making these sorts of comments have some serious ego related issues and deserve contempt (and perhaps a little pity too) as well as disapproval. Either that or you're in "their" way and deserve the abuse for interfering in their "serious" training - equally bad if they mouth off at you as a result. Of course, you also get some people who are plain d*ckheads and think it's funny and clever to upset people, and they could be riding anything (or in the car, on the footpath etc)...

Fortunately there are plenty of "serious" cyclists out there who are full of nothing but mutual enthusiasm and encouragement for anyone out their on the road, and just like to see people out enjoying themselves on the bike - these make up the vast majority of lycra-clad roadies I see out and about, and this forum seems to be full of them too.

It must be absolutely awful being the target of this sort of abuse - the only thing I would say to anyone who suffers from it is that the idiot spouting it is probably the biggest loser out there on the road today, whatever speed they sprint away, while the victim is an absolute winner if they carry on riding and keep on getting out there on the bike in spite of it.

My wife gets the odd comment when she's out and about, but nothing like the story that the OP linked to!
 

Saluki

World class procrastinator
I have had the odd comment but generally not from cyclists. I have heard comments, mostly from other women who are often more overweight than I am.
The only comment I have had from a cyclist was when I overtook a chap going up a hill. He called me a 'Lardy slapper'. Charming. I cleared off up the hill, super determined to get a PB on it. I did get the PB too. Thanks chap.
 
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