Wandered across just to see how they are and offer my condolences. Dads back, he's a senior Army officer, which I didnt know despite having lived opposite for the last 6 years. Ive looked him in the eye and promised him Man-O-Man that I did everything I could. He told me that he knows any gave me a hug. Older son gave me a hug, and Mum too. They've got a load of family so I just offered my my condolences, told them that if they need anything doing they need only ask, and withdrew.
I've had my (almost) cry now, so its out my system. Its still terribly tragic and unfair, but my heads round it. Because it was an unexpected death I'm doubtless going to be hassled by CID or CPT for a statement for the coroners office, but they can bloody well come and take one from me. All the tiresome stuff is to come now, and if I can ill put in an appearance at the funeral.