John the Monkey
Frivolous Cyclist
- Location
- Crewe
On the rear, you're trying to balance tensions within the sides, not across the whole wheel - the fact that rear wheels are dished (the rim is not central between the hub flanges) means that the tensions will be different on left and right.
On the front (provided it's not a disk front (they do have some dish, I think)) tensions should be more or less equal both sides, as the rim is central between the hub flanges.
On the front (provided it's not a disk front (they do have some dish, I think)) tensions should be more or less equal both sides, as the rim is central between the hub flanges.


Hopefully, ride it 
Actually, destroy is a strong word, almost all badly trued wheels can be brought back to life, just loosen all spokes until you have a loose structure and start again. Only do that when you have a spare wheel at hand, I wouldn't want you to be deprived of your transport!