It might not take as much force or impact as shown in this video (bare in mind these bikes are MTB's and are built to withstand harsh riding, a road bike will be less robust, but still not puny), however an uncompromised and well made (two criteria that should be considered regardless of material) carbon frame will take a hell of a force to fail outright, one that will result in a nasty incident regardless of material.
As for these broken steerers etc, well yes, s*** happens, steerers, chain stays and handlebars made from other materials also fail. Components such as handlebars in their alu form still generally fail suddenly and catastrophically as well.
I primarily ride an aluminium road bike (with carbon forks, I also have have an alu track bike with carbon forks and a full carbon TT bike), but would have few reservations about riding carbon day in day out. The reason I have not "upgraded" to a carbon frame on my road bike is simply because my alu frame is as light and stiff as most carbon frames within my budget.
All valid points - I like a well reasoned response.
I think the bold is a key factor - No one is arguing that carbon frames aren't extremely strong - but what leads to a carbon frame becoming compromised causing the kind of failures we see, and is it always fairly obvious to the owner upon inspection (such as a crack in steel/alu might be)? Is it due to abuse, the owners lack of knowledge regarding what a potential flaw in the carbon may look like, cheap/poor quality layup?
I guess one of the things I'm working from is the number of "My carbon frame suddenly snapped in half" type posts on the internet which I have come across far more than other materials, compared to the lesser number of threads on metal failures which tend to be on an older bike, and spotted early on as a crack.
Not the most scientific approach, I'll grant you, but I have yet to see a real world study of the longevity and durability of carbon bikes (if there is one I'd be interested to see it).
To clear the table, I'd also have no reservations riding a carbon bike day in, day out - I know many people do with no issues, I just like the security of a tried and tested metal frame where cracks can often be spotted before a potential failure.
I also like the idea that if I'm spending big money on a bike that it's an investment that will last me a life time (life time frame warranty anyone?)