Hi Vernon, you are one of the few teachers that want to teach. Teachers these days do not seem to have the skills to control a class of children and actually teach. What I have seen in class at my daughters school is nothing more than reciting out of a book or laptop. Teachers should concentrate on teaching, parenting is for parents.
I really don't think that you have any idea of the tensions in the classroom.
Teachers can only control kids if the kids let them. There are children who are unschooled in: following reasonable instructions, taking responsibility for their own actions and being good citizens because they have not seen such behaviour modelled by their parents. When kids are turning up at school with cigarettes supplied by their parents, whose personal hygiene leaves a lot to be desired because of lack of parental care and whose behaviour is untamed there's very little a teacher can do. Teachers are not lion tamers. Teachers are not hygienists. Teachers should not have to put up with verbal and physical abuse from parents and pupils but we do.
The vast majority of teachers want to teach and get on with their jobs unburdened by: pointless administration, irrelevant initiatives, focussing on the latest educational fad of the current secretary of state, and intensive social work. Your family unit might be fine and dandy but there's a hell of a lot of dysfunctional families out there whose offspring are offloaded to schools to equip with social skills, eating skills, personal hygiene routines, citizenship skills, emotional well being to start with.
It did not give me any satisfaction today when I opened a local newspaper and read about three of my former pupils, all of them nineteen years old receiving jail sentences of six and seven years for kicking an eighteen year old unconscious and stealing his iPhone.
Who failed the miscreants? The teachers or their parents?