I have been cheeky enough to re-write your list, personlly for myself i would reduce it more so, but for beginners, the list would be better for you. about BBQ,s some sites dont allow them as can be a fire risk in some areas. You can use a lot of energy cycle touring, so you really need to think about what food is going to give you best value, and for sure in my mind your breakfast has to have plenty of Cal,s.
Equipment List:
The obvious:
Bike
Lights (front light doubles as a torch)
Helmet
Gloves (use cycling mitts).
Cycling Shorts x1
Trainers
Water Bottle x2
Waterproof Top
Cycling Tops x2 ( if one keeps you cold wear them both)
Cycling Glasses/Sun Glasses
Pump
Inner Tubes x2
P - Repair Kit
1st Aid Kit
Bike Locks
Other:
Tent
Sleeping Mat
Sleeping Bag
Tooth Brush + Paste (use part used tube and cut down the handle on the brush)
½ Hand Towel
Ron hill style track Bottoms x1 ( If weather is not so good you can always wear them over your cycling shorts and they dry fast)
T-Shirts x 2
Underwear x 2
Vaseline
Multi Tool, inc. Allen keys and knife cable ties etc...
Maps
Pen
Notebook
Phone
Knife + Forks
Plate
Energy Bars
Socks x 3
part used bar of soap
packable sun hat
(Note: We will be buying disposable BBQ's during the day for the nights, and eating at cafe's ect...)
Disposable BBQ, more weight to have to carry once you have bought them, you would be better buying wayfarer boil in the bag meals, which have about 900 Cal,s per pouch, and you don’t get your pots dirty and you can eat them cold. And or carry a small billy and lightwt gas stove,
Don’t worry about carrying a toilet roll, just carry a few sheets in a small poly bag in case you get taken short, and you can replace them at your next cafe/pub break, In the many thousands of Miles I have cycle-packed in the UK, I have always managed to have found a toilet to have a civilised crap.