Hi there,
I recently built up a 1" ahead frame and fork for my wife.
For the carbon fork, you may find decent second hand Kinesis carbon threadless forks. For new ones, have a look at Tifosi. There are some decent name brand ones on
ebay too (used or NOS) such as Easton and Ritchey.
Tifosi forks
1" ahead headsets are a bit like hens teeth but they are out there. I found a Ritchey one in the odds and sods box at my LBS.
If you have the cash:
Campag headset
Some more decent looking ones
here.
For the stem, there are some old 1" stems out there, but the best thing will be to get a 1-1/8" stem and a
shim to make it fit. This is especially the case if you want to use oversize bars as I don't think you can get 1" oversize stems.
You can get 1" spacers on ebay.