jhawk
Veteran
- Location
- New Brunswick, Canada
So, I thought I'd vent a bit on here - get some feelings out, and see what you all make of it.
Anyway, as the title suggests, I feel like I'm having a bit of a quarter-life crisis. Maybe that's being dramatic - but I don't know how else to term it. Currently, as most of you know, I've recently moved to a new place - Sackville, NB. And I absolutely love it here. It's a small University town, with some amazing scenery, architecture, great people and all the good stuff. I'm very happy.
And yet, and yet I find myself feeling lost. Currently, my writing career isn't going all that well - it could be that I'm not putting enough effort into it. I will happily concede that. Sometimes I can't find the motivation to do anything (whether that's scope out new articles, write, pitch or whatever), it could be that - since my move has opened up many new opportunities, I'm simply struggling to focus. I started out writing about current affairs, for a small blog that I operated for two years once I graduated from high school. That has since long gone - as I have decided to focus on my travel pieces. And have enjoyed success in that arena. However, I am finding that the success is hit-and-miss - for example, I recently wrote a piece that'll appear in a Vancouver cycling lifestyle magazine - and I'll be getting paid for it. However, that is my first paid gig in a while. And while I was pitching like crazy for a while, it appears to be very hit-and-miss, as I've said. And perhaps it is the hit-and-miss nature of freelance that has me discouraged and without focus. I'd like to find a more stable writing position - but those are proving difficult to come by.
As mentioned earlier, the move has opened up new doors for me. The University in particular, has got me thinking that maybe it is time for me to attend. If I were to go, I'd probably study Politics and International Relations, or something of the sort. I've talked about that in a previous thread, so there's no point in me banging on about it now. So, that is one option that I have available to me. And, given the Provincial Government of New Brunswick has made a declaration that they're going to make post-secondary education subsidized, starting in the 2016/17 school year - that option is becoming all the more attractive.
As for my bicycle touring plans - due to unforeseen circumstances arising from inheritance that I am due (from the UK), that will likely put any serious travel plans off for the next few months. (These issues are of a legal nature - so I'm not sure how much detail I can go into, and so I won't go into any). And, given that I am very happy in Sackville, escapism from a shitty small town, is no longer a factor. I will still be touring this Summer, but localised only.
In closing, I'll say that while generally I am very happy (I even have a date coming up!), I still feel very lost... Hopefully this'll pass. Maybe something will happen that will point me in the right direction. I certainly hope so, anyway.
Any and all thoughts/suggestions/comments/sharing of your own experiences, are very much welcome.
Thanks all,
*Please note that I understand that comparatively to other people of this age, my problems pail in comparison*
Anyway, as the title suggests, I feel like I'm having a bit of a quarter-life crisis. Maybe that's being dramatic - but I don't know how else to term it. Currently, as most of you know, I've recently moved to a new place - Sackville, NB. And I absolutely love it here. It's a small University town, with some amazing scenery, architecture, great people and all the good stuff. I'm very happy.
And yet, and yet I find myself feeling lost. Currently, my writing career isn't going all that well - it could be that I'm not putting enough effort into it. I will happily concede that. Sometimes I can't find the motivation to do anything (whether that's scope out new articles, write, pitch or whatever), it could be that - since my move has opened up many new opportunities, I'm simply struggling to focus. I started out writing about current affairs, for a small blog that I operated for two years once I graduated from high school. That has since long gone - as I have decided to focus on my travel pieces. And have enjoyed success in that arena. However, I am finding that the success is hit-and-miss - for example, I recently wrote a piece that'll appear in a Vancouver cycling lifestyle magazine - and I'll be getting paid for it. However, that is my first paid gig in a while. And while I was pitching like crazy for a while, it appears to be very hit-and-miss, as I've said. And perhaps it is the hit-and-miss nature of freelance that has me discouraged and without focus. I'd like to find a more stable writing position - but those are proving difficult to come by.
As mentioned earlier, the move has opened up new doors for me. The University in particular, has got me thinking that maybe it is time for me to attend. If I were to go, I'd probably study Politics and International Relations, or something of the sort. I've talked about that in a previous thread, so there's no point in me banging on about it now. So, that is one option that I have available to me. And, given the Provincial Government of New Brunswick has made a declaration that they're going to make post-secondary education subsidized, starting in the 2016/17 school year - that option is becoming all the more attractive.
As for my bicycle touring plans - due to unforeseen circumstances arising from inheritance that I am due (from the UK), that will likely put any serious travel plans off for the next few months. (These issues are of a legal nature - so I'm not sure how much detail I can go into, and so I won't go into any). And, given that I am very happy in Sackville, escapism from a shitty small town, is no longer a factor. I will still be touring this Summer, but localised only.
In closing, I'll say that while generally I am very happy (I even have a date coming up!), I still feel very lost... Hopefully this'll pass. Maybe something will happen that will point me in the right direction. I certainly hope so, anyway.
Any and all thoughts/suggestions/comments/sharing of your own experiences, are very much welcome.
Thanks all,
*Please note that I understand that comparatively to other people of this age, my problems pail in comparison*