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Affairs of the heart - Relationship advice!
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Or come for a Salsa Noche with me, post the pictures and see how fast she dumps him...
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OK... Consider yourself privileged @tyred as this will be one of my very few posts with even a hint of seriousness here! (I feel exhausted already..)
The elephant in the room: the girl has issues. Her issues lead her to depression and not the other way round. The evidence of her issues is what you see in the way she treats her partners. Whatever you saw during her depression was just the by-product.
And here is the question: do you really want to get involved with someone like that? Especially considering the fact that you are just getting out of your personal sh*t! Do you really think that she will suddenly become the loving, caring partner she has never been , only because she never met anyone like you!!! And, please, don't get me wrong! I'm not implying you're not a great guy (not that I would it know even if you weren't ). I'm just saying that whatever her issues are, the are still present, strongly manifested even in her current relationship.
Do yourself a favour and stay with her just as a friends. Find yourself a girl that can and will love you. Someone who can bring the happiness and the balance you need and -most likely- deserve.
The elephant in the room: the girl has issues. Her issues lead her to depression and not the other way round. The evidence of her issues is what you see in the way she treats her partners. Whatever you saw during her depression was just the by-product.
And here is the question: do you really want to get involved with someone like that? Especially considering the fact that you are just getting out of your personal sh*t! Do you really think that she will suddenly become the loving, caring partner she has never been , only because she never met anyone like you!!! And, please, don't get me wrong! I'm not implying you're not a great guy (not that I would it know even if you weren't ). I'm just saying that whatever her issues are, the are still present, strongly manifested even in her current relationship.
Do yourself a favour and stay with her just as a friends. Find yourself a girl that can and will love you. Someone who can bring the happiness and the balance you need and -most likely- deserve.
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Hill Wimp
Fair weathered,fair minded but easily persuaded.
+1^ @tyred you sound very much as if you have come a long way, she however certainly still has a way to go with her relationship issues and my concern would be that she would set you back on the path.
Sorry to be blunt here but as a woman reading all you have said about her she has all the hallmarks of a manipulator.
I do hope i am wrong.
s7ephanie
middle of nowhere in France
+2 but good luck
Just thought I'd give an update on this since I've had PM enquiries!
We're still close friends but she finished the other relationship before Christmas, went through a period of questioning her sexuality and feeling she was more attracted to other women and then decided she is better off being single and celibate.
She does seem a lot happier and more stable these days. I am too tbh.
We're still close friends but she finished the other relationship before Christmas, went through a period of questioning her sexuality and feeling she was more attracted to other women and then decided she is better off being single and celibate.
She does seem a lot happier and more stable these days. I am too tbh.
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