.<snip> ...i do not “truly” believe that all BMW drivers are cocks, I am certain that not all Head cam wearers are cocks either...although there is an undeniable correlation in both instances ....<\snip>.
I don't believe that drivers are out to hurt us deliberately.
They may make bad judgements or misunderstand how driving so close can sh1t scare a cyclist.
There are however a minority of drivers who want to "scare" us, "teach us a lesson" by driving deliberately aggressively
Perhaps, but I can honestly say that in nearly two years of all weather long-distance commuting, I have never had a run in with any driver.
There've been driver errors and that's precisely how I've viewed them. I don't shout at drivers or shake my head or point the finger. However, I do, as MacB noted earlier, thank drivers for considerate driving, even where their consideration didn't involve them doing anything extraordinary.
Perhaps Yorkshire has nicer drivers than others areas and / or perhaps I've been lucky.
Something that can make a difference, and I've seen examples on here, is positive reinforcement. I know Mikey has contacted firms to compliment a driver, I have and there are a few others. There's also quite a few of us that smile and wave at drivers, make eye contact and generally try to make their actions feel appreciated, even if they're only doing what they should. It quickly becomes second nature and I've seen immediate benefits. For example, I used to find I could have problems when a vehicle was really patient about overtaking me. The following vehicles could often get impatient and give less room and cut back in sharply. Since I started using a wave of thanks to the first driver my impression has been that it's seen by others behind and seems to cool them down.
When I started riding I got quite uptight and had a few confrontations, but it was having a negative impact on me and I was struggling to see the good. I enjoy my riding much more by taking a more relaxed attitude, I did the same when I commuted by car.
There are however a minority of drivers who want to "scare" us, "teach us a lesson" by driving deliberately aggressively - overtaking far too close, speeding up behind a cyclist who is indicating to pull out, that sort of thing. They may not be trying to physically hurt us (although plenty would be glad if their actions caused a cyclist to fall) but they are deliberately trying to upset and scare, and they put us at risk that their driving is not as good as they think it is. Which by definition is isn't, because if they were skilled drivers they wouldn't have a problem with cyclists.
There are however a minority of drivers who want to "scare" us, "teach us a lesson" by driving deliberately aggressively
Perhaps, but I can honestly say that in nearly two years of all weather long-distance commuting, I have never had a run in with any driver.
There've been driver errors and that's precisely how I've viewed them. I don't shout at drivers or shake my head or point the finger. However, I do, as MacB noted earlier, thank drivers for considerate driving, even where their consideration didn't involve them doing anything extraordinary.
Perhaps Yorkshire has nicer drivers than others areas and / or perhaps I've been lucky.
Remember the line from Knight Rider. "One man can make a difference". So maybe, bit by bit we will start to make a difference in how people behave on the roads.
There are however a minority of drivers who want to "scare" us, "teach us a lesson" by driving deliberately aggressively
I wondered how long it would be before we started to quote Knightrider!!