Apalling actions from an Arriva bus driver

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jarlrmai

Veteran
Confrontations like this expose the raw attitudes that cause the driving that plague all of us, they are messy and seem unnecessary and over the top. Yes you can just ignore it and let it go and you will probably have an easier time of things. When we choose not to it's often messy and probably people don't behave as they always should when situations get heated.

In a way this is a protest movement (maybe a little ott), there will be those who are okay with the status quo and there are those whom are not, the laws of the road are being ignored by a small proportion of people who are willing to intimidate vulnerable people from a massive position of strength or engage in selfish driving behaviours that lead to death and injury, they are further backed up by a greater population who are ambivalent at best and at worst... well the comments on any cycling story in a major press website tell you about those people, furthermore the police don't really seem to care outside of London and Roadsafe (which probably has the greatest percentage of cycling commuters) and from what I hear it's not always plain sailing there. This encourages the vigilantism and the self documentation using cameras.
 

Black Country Ste

Senior Member
Location
West Midlands
I perceive it to be bullying and I don't think I am the only one who sees it that way and I am not talking about just this thread.


Exactly. It's the same old faces giving him grief. The same old faces saying: "That never happens to me, put the camera away, there's a good boy. Run along." That's bullying.

I don't understand Asperger's, I'm not climbing Mount Stupid on that topic but Matthew sometimes acts on impulse. He overtook the bus at the crossing, it wasn't something I would do and others have fairly explained it to him. He gets it and has taken it on board just as he has with his behaviour around pedestrians in the past, which I've given him stick for. Great.

What happened after was an annoyed bus driver using his 13-ton weapon to pass closely in punishment, which Matthew *ignored* with a shake of the head. The bus driver did it again with added obscene gestures and, when asked why, then verbally assaulted Matthew and involved his colleagues to gang up on him. That must have been intimidating for a young boy to have two, three, middle aged men shouting at him. All Matthew has done was stand his ground.

It could be that one or both drivers stand to lose their jobs over that. So simple: Don't drive like a staff puppy and don't threaten members of the public while representing your employer. I could very well expect to lose my job behaving like that when I'm out in the van.
 

Slaav

Guru
My word; how many posts have I wanted to comment on or reply to but here are a few of my thoughts having read the whole damn thing :smile: (Forgive me if I forget to insult anyone or praise a 'nobber' by mistake....)

Just above, for the first time, the word 'Proportion' has been mentioned. I think in many aspects of law and life, proportionality is a key message in respnses. If losing his job is proportional having given Matthew the bird fits with your own personal yardstick, then fine. It doesn't fit with me. If this is the 17th such incident and he has been reprted by 16 other seperate motorists/road users or even passengers, then that would be different. I believe that in London, if Hackney or Licensed Taxi drivers have one minor complaint, nothing much happens. If they have one MAJOR incident and are at fault, they can lose their job and badge. Many or several small incidents being reported to PCO (?) then a 'word' is had and that can obviously end up with loss of badge.

I don't feel it is appropriate to comment on the bullyng 'claims' and rebuttals for all sorts of reasons....

Highway Code. Now here is a good one.... I would have stated categorically that I was fairly familiar with the Highway Code as I studied it fastidiously to pass my test (1984!) To this day, I would have sworn blindly that the wording was 'cyclists should not ride more than two abreast, especially on busy or narrow roads'. It doesn't! I have now read it and see how I was wrong about something so simple. Has it changed? I have no idea. WHich leads me on to a question; Why do we not have retests of our driving test? In this stupid land of culpability and litigation, surely it would be POSITIVE to retest people in command of big metal boxes? There would be uproar I am sure for a few years, so introduce it in (say) 10 years or so - plenty of time for people to grow accustomed to the idea? PSV drivers do (I believe) have to retest and one would hope that this includes the HC? Maybe not, does anyone know?

On the OP (Sorry for tangent above) my very very first reaction was to reach for the popcorn and put the kettle on whilst the thread builded and I waited for the video. My very first thought on watching the video was 'oh dear, I would not have posted that first overtake up!'. COming back to my HC point above, I was convinced that the rules were simple - 'DO NOT OVERTAKE ON ZIGZAGS and on the approach to a corssing etc.' This was set in stone or so I thought..... HAving now read the HC and looked for 'my proof' it appears that the 'rules of the road' are weighted slightly differently for drivers and cyclists. I would still interpret the 'no overtaking on zigzags' to apply though - as opposed to filtering.

The BD (Thanks for the shorthand key above) may well have thought 'what the hell - what a knob!' as MT 'flew' past irresponsibly. There is always a chance that the BD has other issues which may well have contriubuted to his following behaviour but..... Notwithstanding these possible issues, having been 'startled' and annoyed by the irresponsible cyclist (in his mind), to then see the cyclist calling him a 'nutter' with the generally accepted pointing at head gesture, I was not particularly surprised by the BD's behaviour when confronted at the 'Depot'. (Probably not correct to generailse too much about BDs... :smile:)

Was anyone else really surprised by BD2 and (Damn cannot remember the funny one about the chap with glasses who thought he was God's gift and 'cool' so - ) BDWGWTHWGGAC backing up their colleague and possible mate? That is what happens and I would hope that my colleagues and mates' first instinct is to stand up for me :smile: (As I can be a c0ck, it wouldn't last that long :smile:)

I also loved the bit about the HC but why oh why not carry around a proper little HC with those coloured tabs poking out the sides so you don't take 34 seconds to find the page..... I may have responded in a similar fashion to BDWGWTHWGGAC re my own two examples above if confronted with a 'print out' and not the little book - or am I showing my age again?

I think the BDs did not cover themselves in glory on this video - BDWGWTHWGGAC is simply a jumped up little tw4t and I think driving a bus is simply a coincidence. Cycling in London does lead to many VERY GOOD (BD) driver experiences and also some utter idiots - I am not happy that I have gestured at times. In LOndon and outside; sometimes it is a shake of the head or a frustrated gesture, sometimes a little stronger but PROPORTIONALITY please????? Both with MT and many posters on here who seem to want a fight over minor misunderstandings and perceived insults etc....

The main point of reading the whole thread (from my own PoV) is to learn and question my own views on the OP and video. I have changed some of my views, moulded some more and binned some. SOme have also been massively reinforced so thank you to all for that! :smile:

The whole thing may not have happened without the initial 'moody' and mad (IMHO) overtake at the crossing and zigzags. WOuld everything else have happened if MT had simply overtaken at the Bus Stop? I don't think so but we will never ever know...... It might have done?

Personally, I think a bit more anticipation and diplomacy would help MT to enjoy his cycling more and also possibly make his hobby much safer for him. I have said it before but riding a motorbike for many years and being trained to do so properly mean I am a much better cyclist now than I could ever have hoped to be without it - certainly better than when I was 18/19 :smile:
 

Cycling Dan

Cycle Crazy
Pass nothing wrong with it. If your not there to judge what Matthew can see in front of him (and we never will be) from camera looked fine.
Matthew you have to learn to control your temper walk way or be less aggressive when talking to or confronting people. Personally I would not have bothered. Life is to short. On a daily commute I get cut up daily through London. Bus drivers, as a pro driver, that represents the company swearing,y confronting members of the public, arguing the toss with the public, shouting are all not acceptable. The represent the company. Driving standards are shocking. Personally if the company refuses to do anything about this I would head off to blogger create a blog. Use the video write some content and expose the fact that have no idea about road safety

Life is the longest thing you do. :laugh:
 

Hip Priest

Veteran
Exactly. It's the same old faces giving him grief. The same old faces saying: "That never happens to me, put the camera away, there's a good boy. Run along." That's bullying.

No it isn't. It's advice. Aren't you the fella who ended up on the news when some motorist gave you a hiding? Well, I don't want that to happen to Matthew. And it's about 100 times more likely to happen if he listens to the likes of you instead the 'same old faces'.
 

Cycling Dan

Cycle Crazy
No it isn't. It's advice. Aren't you the fella who ended up on the news when some motorist gave you a hiding? Well, I don't want that to happen to Matthew. And it's about 100 times more likely to happen if he listens to the likes of you instead the 'same old faces'.

He could put the camera away and do exactly that. Then if hes ever assaulted where does he stand then? At the bottom of the list and overlooked is where he is. Same if hes hit by a car. Plenty of threads on here.... Got hit by a car, nothing happened and bikes ruined. In most of them there were no witnesses or they were unreliable.
The only thing which needs to change is not the camera but his approach to some situations.
 
Actively supporting and encouraging what could be described as a vulnerable road user with a questionable social skills to confront unknown road users and highlight perceived errors in their driving is, in my opinion, bullying in it's worst form.
 

Hip Priest

Veteran
He could put the camera away and do exactly that. Then if hes ever assaulted where does he stand then? At the bottom of the list and overlooked is where he is. Same if hes hit by a car. Plenty of threads on here.... Got hit by a car, nothing happened and bikes ruined.


I don't think the camera is the problem. In fact, I think it'd be quite useful in the event of a collision or confrontation.
 

Cycling Dan

Cycle Crazy
I don't think the camera is the problem. In fact, I think it'd be quite useful in the event of a collision or confrontation.

Well that's the old boy saying on this thread and others. "Put the camera away and enjoy the ride". Along with other leave the camera at home related comments.
I agree his approach needs to change in some situations.
 

BlackPanther

Hyper-Fast Recumbent Riding Member.
Location
Doncaster.
For those who want to see the 'highway code' part, it is at about 6:00.

View: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fp-G2bdt1_4


Apologies......missed this thread when it first appeared. This is probably the 1st time I've ever watched such a long video the whole way through. I'm sure it's all been said (I haven't read through all 15 pages of responses), the bus driver is a prat, and his attitude sucks. The guy who thinks a doors width is the 'legal' amount of room he should give a cyclist has in idiotic, and dangerous attitude to cyclists, who he thinks shouldn't even share 'his' road when there's a cycle path available! I've seen this attitude on occasion, but at the speeds you and I travel it would just be a matter of time before fast cyclist met pedestrian......roads are far safer for us. I just hope that Mr driver, and Mr Doorwidth are given a bit of training.
 
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