So we agree then. I wear what suits me. You wear what suits you. What the Wail and its ilk thinks is irrelevant, it has many minorities to demonise and when it gets bored with cyclists it will just supply something else from its menu to feed its readership of haters. Some people don't need encouragement from anyone to disrespect the vulnerable. It has been my observation that you just might reduce the incidence of unwelcome attention from this type of person by wearing "ordinary" clothes and as a generally solitary cyclist I haven't really had anything to report. It may just be because of where I live. But my reason for wearing what I wear is because it works, not to please other people, even Drago, although I actually agree with a lot of what he says.
My adult cycling career began in a small rural Welsh village where I bought a bike so I could go to the pub without driving. Nobody I knew rode a bike. It just grew from there. I suppose I became an eccentric beardy cyclist, experimenting with luggage systems, trailers etc and cycling miles. It led to club membership (miles away), CTC, YHA. I have lived in darkest England for over 30 years now and have long ago ceased to worry about what others think. I respect their point of view, take from them what I find useful, hope that others might find useful things in my viewpoint, but generally do my own thing.
This is getting a long way from the OP but I hope it is of interest. On my recent outings I have encountered more cyclists than I have seen for years. One thing I have noticed is that the obviously non-regular cyclists are mostly happy and wave or say hello but the road type cyclists all appear to be on a mission, look grim and don't acknowledge the wave or nod as they steam by. Perhaps they are saving energy? Cycling makes me happy, mostly. Happiness expresses itself in many ways.