Have to say I'm astonished by the number of people who clearly think it's reasonable to ask people to make a 660 mile round trip to babysit. To me, that is palpably bonkers. When we had young'uns it was sometimes a bit of a hassle finding someone, but we always did, or we found another workaround. I would never have dreamt of asking my wife's parents to do it - or mine, had they been alive. Round the corner, fine. An hour across town, ok...so long as you don't make a habit of it. But 660 miles? Are you all crazy? She's going to need babysitters quite a lot. Does she expect her parents to drive 2/3 of a thousand miles every time? Has anyone considered the environmental implications of this as 'an approach to babysitting'? She needs to find some other way to do this.