lukesdad
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Manners? So "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have stopped there! I was in your way" when the choice was stop or ride under a lorry on the roundabout is manners? Offering to pay for the damage to the car that drove into the back of you when you legitimately stopped at a give-way sign is manners?
If you think that I think you need to get a new definition of m-a-n-n-e-r-s. Or perhaps that is the m-a-n-n-e-r-s which you as a motorist require of cyclists?
As a motorist myself, I would find it far better manners had the motorist in the case I refer to simply driven with basic courtesy and road sense.
Edit to add: I do get very annoyed about the suggestion that cyclists should, in any circumstances, be riding in the gutter. I have seen too many who believe this and seen the consequences of the close pass that this invites: Slipstream causes wobble, front wheel hits kerb and cyclist falls under following (also too close) car. The results are nasty and NO-ONE should be telling cyclists to ride in that position.
I was refering to the gentleman himself rather than his riding style but, you knew that all along didn t you ?
...and I dont really drive a car very much. I do the odd mile or two on a bike though

). I don't think urban cycling has to be "a combative, hair-trigger thrill", often new cyclists think like car-drivers when they first get on their bike when they plan their route - which often tends to be along the main busy roads. There are a large number of alternative routes in cities that can allow you to filter out some of that "thrill" if you want to. I cycled part way home with a friend today - we took a slightly longer back route than if we had each been on our own, that happened to avoid a hill and a main road ... merely because we wanted to chat as we cycled together.